!!AIR SEAL FIRST!!As someone above me pointed out, you likely have lots of penetrations going into your attic. It is best to address these before you put in (more) insulation.
Air sealing is
more important than insulation for HVAC control. If you pump your house full of expensive, filtered, heated/cooled air, and then let it all leak out, then you're wasting money and creating a less healthy interior space. Air sealing is more important at the top and bottom of the house due to the stack effect, so before you do anything to your attic, spend more time air sealing than with insulation.
Insulating without air sealing is like buying a bigger winter jacket but not zipping it up. It will help, but ultimately isn't as effective against wind or moisture or just general homogeneous control. For example, your bedroom with an attic access could be cold because the cap is leaky. You should try to make sure the interior air is contained before addressing other problems.
If you never never use the attic hatch in the other room, you may even want to drywall it over. But if not, build a cap like was said. Something like this:
http://www.renovation-headquarters.com/images6/attic%20access%20panel%20-%20insulated%20cr.jpgNote the foam weather stripping on that drawing. That's for air sealing! I also typically build up a dam around the cap with plywood or foam or something to keep the blown insulation from falling in (where the "rafters" are labeled in the image)
In brief, if your house is heated or cooled, it has a different pressure than the outside. Because of this, air will want to equalize pressure by moving air in or out. This is exasperated if it is windy or there is humidity differences as well. This air comes through all of your penetrations, but particularly at the base of your house and your attic. Anywhere there is a light or conduit or sometimes even load bearing wall there is a hole from your unconditioned attic to your conditioned house. The way to fix this is to seal all of those holes up. I've found quite large holes in many spots of houses where no attention was paid to this. Most contractors drill a 1"hole for 1/2" conduit, etc. That's typically dozens of little spots where air is moving freely (insulation does not stop this). It ends up being a large square footage of what is effectively a big hole in your roof.
To fix this, you grab a good mask and some longs sleeve shirt and gloves and methodically work from one end of your attic to the other, removing the existing insulation and spraying foam along all of the holes or using rigid foam to cover the bigger ones. Then replace the insulation. This is why it's better to do before you blow another 12" of insulation in there. Or hire someone to do it.
The benefit is that you also have better control of the filtration and humidity within your house. It is not a glamorous or exciting job. It's even less appealing than insulation. But it is higher on the list of priorities in most cases for creating a more functional building envelope.