Honestly, most of the lower-end models from most of the major brands, when installed by a professional who's experienced with that brand, are all going to perform adequately.
It's true that some brands are considered higher quality than others, but that's on the whole across a wide range of climates and in a very diverse set of operating conditions. Your guy said to avoid Lennox, my guy said to avoid York. My brother who works in HVAC distribution says to avoid Amana. Your guy recommends Goodman, mine recommended Carrier, and my brother recommends Bryant.
But ultimately what it's going to come down to is warranty. it's not like any of these brands are failing at alarming rates, especially when they're appropriately sized and properly installed. If and when a failure does occur, chances are more than likely that it'll be near of after the warranty period has expired.
If I had any advice to give it would be to first, get another quote for another brand that's similarly spec'd to the one you've already been quoted on. HVAC salespeople try to focus on the 'comfort' aspect of the system and tend not to talk about the actual nuts and bolts of how it performs under various conditions. They're there to sell you a solution that they think is going to be equally as good for them as it is for you, and most people tend to ignore the minutiae of how the thing they're selling is going to operate and more importantly what the longer term costs are going to be.
Second, and perhaps more important than the first (and this is according to my brother, not my own market analysis) - despite the high prices now, you're going to want to act sooner rather than later. Starting in 2023, the minimum efficiency requirements for new residential HVAC installations are going to jump to 14 SEER for the northern half of the country and 15 SEER for the southern half. This, coupled with supply chain constraints and a glut of new construction is going to keep supply tight and prices high if not higher. He thinks we might see another couple price increases before the end of this year.
FWIW we ended up with a Carrier system with an all in cost of $9750 which is fairly typical for our area.