Hi Everyone. Just discovered this forum a couple of weeks ago and have been reading as much as I can daily.
I'm 45, wife 42 with 4 kids (11, 12, 13, 20) and we're filing jointly. We live in an HCOL area where most neighbors drive Teslas and Range Rovers. I love our house and neighborhood and since the day I purchased this house (10 years ago for $500K) decided it was going to be where I spend the rest of my life. We have one of the least expensive houses in the neighborhood, so it has lots of room to go up in value where other homes are valued at $1M-2M.
We make a decent income, but we never really kept track of our spending. We just bought what we wanted as long as we knew there was money in the bank to pay the bills. This has to stop, and I'm trying to come up with a good game plan so we can manage our finances better. In about 7-8 years, I will not have a Child Support payment and in 15 years no more mortgage. This will free up almost $4000/month. So I would like to be FIRE in about 10 years.
I'm willing to make changes to accomplish this, but not sure how on-board the wife is. I can't remember the last time I came home and was not greeted with an Amazon box on our porch with her name on it.
Monthly Yearly Comments
Income
Earner #1 $10,000 $120,000
Earner #2 $4,583 $55,000
Combined Take Home After Taxes $11,000 $132,000
Expenses
Home
Mortgage $2,242 $26,904 15 years left @ 3.875%
Escrow Property Tax/Ins. $845 $10,140 trying to cancel escrow and pay myself
Property Insurance $365 $4,381 shopped rates, but this was cheapest by far
Electricity $200 $2,400
Streaming Services $40 $480 Netflix, Prime, etc
Cleaning Lady $200/mo paid by company
Household; Maintenance $100 $1,200
Internet $80 $960 just cut cable to save $170/mo
Landscaping/Yard work $150 $1,800 huge yard, no time to diy
Water System & Pool $50 $600 Well system. salt, filters, repairs
Kids
Child Support $1,500 $18,000 To ex-wife Ends in 7-8 Years
Child activities $200 $2,400 Sports, Dance, etc
Childcare $550 $6,600 Afterschool Nanny. No more next year as kids will be older.
529 Pre-Paid College Plan $98 $1,171 Only 1 kids left. Rest are paid for.
School Misc. $30 $360
Auto
Ford Car Loan $0 $0 $551/mo paid from company (36 Months left @ 2.99%)
Infiniti Car Lease $648 $7,776 Lease ends in 7 months
Car Insurance $485/mo paid from company
Car Tolls $10 $120
Car Maintenance, Registration $100 $1,200
Fuel $100 $1,200 some is paid by company
Shopping
Clothing/Shoes $1,125 $13,500 Wife likes to shop
Gifts (Christmas,Birthdays) $300 $3,600
Pets (food, Insurance) $60 $720
Medicine (OTC + Prescription) $30 $360 We're healthy for the most part
Wine/Beer/Tobacco $50 $600
Computer (paper/software/etc.) $30 $360
Food
Dining (Lunch/Dinner/Etc.) $787 $9,444 We just started to cook 6 days per week and bring left overs to work for lunch.
Groceries $800 $9,600
Entertainment, Parties $100 $1,200
Personal Care / Health
Beauty Shop, Haircuts $100 $1,200
Dentist $30 $360
Health Insurance $737/mo paid by company
Life Insurance $35 $420
Medical (Doctor, Hospital) $100 $1,200
Other
Phone (cell) $300/mo paid from company
Subscriptions (Peloton) $41 $492
Travel/Vacation $400 $4,800 yearly average includes one big summer family vacation.
Total Expenses $11,396 $136,748
Assets Liabilities Value
House $315,000 $600,000
Ford Truck $20,450 $60,700
Stocks $600,000
Simple IRA $175,000
Business ($300K-700K if I ever sold my business)
total $351,365 $1,455,200
Networth ~$1M