Hi Solayide, welcome to the forums. My broad advice is to reduce your spending, and kill that hair on fire debt. Here are some ways to accomplish that.
1. Your SL is above 4%, which means you should stop contributing to your 403b and redirect the payments to your student loan.
2. Rent is 37% of your takehome pay. Research ways to reduce this. Cashflow larger houses, that would let your rent 1-2 rooms.
3. Groceries actually seem basically okay for 2.5 omnivores, but I know there are ways to improve. Look into price books, or going vegetarian, etc
4. Car insurance seems very high. Renegotiate. Consider dropping Comprehensive, if you haven't already.
5. Gas is very high. Can you clarify why it's so high? If driving for Uber is driving the need for gas, be sure and cashflow that out your husband's profits.
6. Who's the 3rd person on the life insurance? If it's your kid, consider dropping.
7. Combination of Comcast and cell phones are killing you. That's 8% of your take home pay.
Read I.P. Daley's thread of Communications. He's the local guru.
8. Your misc category is large. Start tracking every penny.
9. General advice on your approach towards money. Learn how to live off your paycheck alone. The great news is you're a high earner, and living on a solo check is completely possible. Take all monies your husband brings in, and put it towards your loan.