Agree with Askel. Be sure to factor in any hidden costs/savings. Living in a more walkable community, closer to friends, you will probably save money on transportation. OTOH, you may end up spending more on eating out, going to movies/shows, etc., because it'll be more convenient. Back when we lived 25 miles from town, we saved a lot, because it was too much of a pita to drive 50 miles, round trip, to do anything. Now that we live in town, we save all the money we used to spend on owning two 4WD vehicles, but we spend a lot more on spontaneously eating out, stopping at a local coffee shop, or going out to see a movie. FWIW, we LOVE our current, walkable neighborhood and would never go back. So, highly recommend moving if you can figure out how to make the financials work. Is there any chance you could, somehow, downsize your housing (or other expenses) to save money? For example, could you maybe get an apartment instead of a house, or a 2BR instead of a 3BR? If you could show your husband that you're willing to conserve in other areas, so as not to derail his FIRE plans, maybe he would be more willing to consider moving?