It's embarrassing to even write this stuff down but here goes:
Life Situation: Single, 2 kids 6 and 8 (50% responsible) Redmond/Seattle WA. I'm 39 semi-recently divorced and starting over.
Gross Salary/Wages: 70,000/year
Investments: 11,000 in IRA with Vanguard VTSAX, 5,000 in another 401k from previous employment (can't rollover without losing 3k)
Other Ordinary Income: Work pays for insurance for me (not kids), cell phone and gas
Monthly Expenses
Rent - $1980 for a 2 bed apt. (it's insane here- includes water and sewer)
Internet - $35
Netflix - $10
Electric - $70
Car - $291 - 2010 Honda CRV owe $3,000 more total
Childcare - $700
Student loan - $178 (46,000 total - kill me)
Credit card - $100 ($3,000 total - kill me)
Gas - n/a employer pays
Phone - n/a employer pays
Kids ins - $40
kids sports - $100?
Groceries - $250
household - $25
clothes/equipment/misc - $25-50
entertainment/misc. (mostly kids) - $50
Investments - contributing $200 with a $200 employer match to IRA
I live close to work and groceries, etc. (2 blocks-can walk everywhere) but don't pay for any gas anyway. I am obviously concerned about paying the debt off - emergency I know - but around here not sure how to pull off cheaper rent and cheaper childcare. Feel like I need to work full time even with the costs of childcare. Feel stuck. Divorce kinda messed up the credit situation and feel like it should be pretty easy to pay off the car and the card, but scared about the student loan and it just feels unmanageable.
I feel I'm decent at not buying things and being frugal about no cable, coupons, most inexpensive monthly payments (i.e. internet, etc.) but don't know what to do about rent and childcare.
Also - I rarely go out or spend money on myself for entertainment and the like but feel bad keeping my kids out of sports and birthday parties so I def. pay for those.
And maybe I'm being too picky - but I can't really get a room mate (unless I'm sleeping with them - ;)) because I have a 2 bedroom and 2 kids and I have a one year lease. Also roomie with kids just feels wrong.
I coach on the side so I don't have to pay for my gym membership.
Any ideas would be greatly greatly appreciated. I feel stuck.