Starting afresh in 2017. Bit of a compromise between a saver (Mrs/me) and a spender/hoarder (Mr) so not likely to ever be a full on mustachian budget/lifestyle, but here goes...
Life Situation: UK based and both PAYE so no tax return to file, family of four - me (33), Mr (40) and two kids 4yrs and 20months. Both working full time with eldest in school and youngest in private nursery.
NET wages £3040.11 (mine) plus £1148.47 (his) monthly.
My contributions to defined benefit pension scheme are pretax at £227 per month and accrue approx £56 per year (from age 60) per month's contribution (really hope that makes sense). Contribution to Mr's company pension is a pittance, only matches to 1% of salary and so this is the default contribution so it's somewhere between £10-20 per month pre-tax and I don't really keep track of this at the moment.
Other Ordinary Income: Child Benefit £137.60 four-weekly. Childcare vouchers paid for from my salary pretax £124 monthly.
Overall net income: £4327.18 (as paid into the bank, not including pretax deductions above)
Taxes: Income tax not applicable as net income figures given above.
Council tax £111 monthly, car tax £185 annual.
January expenses:
Mortgage: 660.99
Water: 23.30
Gas and electricity: 90
Storage unit: 100 (face-punch expected here, a hang over from our failed attempt to sell our house, in the process of being emptied with the plan to ditch this by March)
Train tickets: 29.30 (lower than the typical 80ish due to time off, this is my commuting cost)
Petrol: 112 (higher than normal ~50 due to travel back from visiting family over New Year)
Car loan: 208.84 (I know...shame!)
Car maintenance: 0
Car tax and insurance paid annually and not due, last year's figures were £185 and £258.65 respectively.
Mobile phones x2: 70.47
Netflix: 6.99
TV Licence: 12.12
Internet: 21.00
Nursery fees: 350 (usually ~850)
Other childcare costs: 220 (paying for nursery food separately to fees, before and after-school clubs etc)
Groceries: 355.40
Eating out and takeaways: 44.69
Mine and Mr's Allowance: 200
Softplay / days out: 119.75
Events and gifts: 25.80
Life insurance: 35.82 (benefit in line with with mortgage remaining)
Misc (new shredder, kids shoes etc): 76.03
Kids savings accounts: 100 each
Holiday and Christmas savings account: 150
Total outgoings (January): £3472.60
Difference: +1230.93
(Based on more typical figures would only be ~ +750)
Assets:
Defined benefit pension, currently worth just over £6500 per year from May 2043.
Emergency fund/current account: £17000 - approx £7000 is earmarked for a SIPP contribution before end March 2017 to bring my taxable income under 50k so I won't have to pay back any child benefit.
House is worth about what is owed so no equity (bought in February 2008 and area prices not recovered)
Liabilities:
Mortgage: -97k at 4%
Car loan: -3046.90 (originally 7k) 15 months remaining at 4%
Specific Question(s):
I suppose I'm looking for the face punches to get me to wake up and I intend to morph this into a journal at some point to get accountability on areas I need to address going forward.
I keep looking ahead (and wishing my life away I suppose to some degree) to when littlest goes to school and the bulk of the childcare costs go away as I always feel any saving I make elsewhere is dwarfed by childcare costs which can be very de-motivating...
I need to get out of my own head and get a fresh pair of eyes on these numbers... Help me find and keep a course this year and finally get my finances to a 'set and forget' position!