After years of owning Japanese I bought a Tesla Y in September. I am concerned about the reliability factor but decided to risk it.
On the plus side the electricity is cheap here in Iowa, about 9 cents per KwH. I have used 2125 Kwh = $192 of electricity to go 6,054 miles (that's not entirely accurate as I did some supercharging on trips so it was more than $212 but for commuting that's beside the point here) so 3.2 cents per mile, possibly a bit more due to other losses in charging the battery.
If you're doing 80 miles a day, you will want level 2 charging in your garage, that might cost a few thousand to install. There are some benefits, no stopping at gas stations, no oil changes. I look at Hertz trying to unload their Teslas and several have 120K miles on them and they're asking $16K. Some Teslas have done a lot of miles (one Tesla in the UK has 400K miles and serves as a Taxi, watch the video on youtube), I'm hoping that their lower reliability is offset by hopefully with less moving parts there will be less stuff to break down.
I think the cost of electricity and the availability of level 2 charging (in my house with level 1, normal outlet plugs, I gain 4.7 miles per hour) are two big questions. If you had the ability to charge your car at work, the level 2 thing would be less of a concern with only 40 miles lost on the return trip but I have no reason to think you'll get free charging at work.
At the time of purchase, there was little difference between the 3 and Y and I chose the Y because it was roomier and more versatile.