FWP & Spartana,
It's probably not cool to say this here, in a hardcore, Badassity Forum, but you both brought me to tears. Not angry tears, but tears of relief that you get me, and you're both trying to give me the best possible advice.
All ppl in life have to make decisions, it's a life process. In my earlier post I'd mentioned the BIG decisions I've made because if I'd listened to other ppl, not wishing the best for me, I would NOT have followed through on the things I've done.
Spartana - wow, thank you, what you said resonated with me. When I was passed over for promotion for maybe the 3-4th time, I was open to other opportunities. I eventually became involved with Union activities, and during contract negotiations I put my neck out on the chopping block by making a presentation to upper mgmt. I earned my colleagues, and myself, a 1% increase for two consecutive years.
I'm relating this story to you since it surprised me that I was THAT kind of a person. I know ultimately the presentation was self-serving, but it benefited many ppl and it gave me a great sense of satisfaction. I'd love to be rich, but unless I stumbled across a passion that translated to riches it's not going to happen. I'm happier making a difference in peoples' lives. That surprised me since I grew up in a very anti-social family, and unless we got paid for something we weren't doing it. Does that make sense?
A few more comments and then I'll shut-up. When I first posted my dilemma I didn't realize that I was hoping someone would say "sounds good to me, DO it!!!" In the space of a few days I've come a long way, baby! I understand many talented, experienced, financial experts visit this forum but I don't need someone poring over my financials, thank you. Meanwhile I'm still working, saving, being active, exploring different hobbies, looking after pets, weaning myself off TV, being a moderator on a reuse site, etc. Just want to add that, in case ppl think I'm staring at my navel wondering how I'm going to make FI happen.