I consider myself FI. I'm sure I don't match everyone's definition though. I'm not FI at my current spending level, but could easily and comfortably stop working if I wanted. So on the face of it, I guess FI is more important to me than RE, since I'm choosing not to RE at the moment. But... obviously I only care about FI so that I can RE (when I decide it makes sense).
I love my job at the moment, if I didn't I would quit. And nothing lasts forever, so I am fully expecting that to happen soon enough. And that's the part that is most important to me. Is that FI or is that RE?