So I made this post last year as a noob to the community and the overwhelmingly detailed and gracious responses and advice humbled me.
http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/ask-a-mustachian/case-study-i-would-love-your-advice/?topicseenTo update my situation, my net worth has gone from 1.1 million to 1.325 million. Obviously the market windfalls since the election had a nice hand in that :) And even better news, I convinced my Mother to sell her house and she'll be buying a smaller condo in a much safer area that will be WAY less work. She should reap a small profit from the house, and even though she'll pick up a new (modest) mortgage the money from the house should take care of it for good.
Bottom line, with my net worth and my estimated yearly spending of ~30K, the 25x rule tells me I could spend 50K if I wanted. I'm now actively looking into easing into FIRE by going part time at my agency. And when I say part time, I'm requesting only 16 hours a week. I want most of my time back to be outside, compete in races, maybe start a business as a trainer or climbing guide.
I just wanted to THANK all the wonderful folks who responded to my post above this time last year and gave me such great advice. It's been a tough year of soul-searching, constant calculations, and frankly worry. But I'm tired of fretting about it and I think easing into FIRE by going part time is a great way to have a soft landing and put my toe in the FIRE waters. It also let's me keep my health benes and other perks, and I'll still accumulate federal service time but at a reduced rate. As a senior manager, it won't be easy, but I'm hoping by summer I'll have a new position as a part time employee with reduced responsibilities and the biggie - no more supervisory duties!!
I feel like I'm ready to start a new life, I'm pumped!