Topic: Moving from office work to the trades
Looking to crowd source my next career move and this forum has been helpful before for sorting out things I wouldn't normally think of or perspective I have not yet considered.
Current Situation: Im a 28 yo urban planner working for a local government on Vancouver Island in BC. My current salary is $116k/yr My SO (Little S) 26yo works for a non profit and has flexibility to work anywhere in BC her salary is $60k/yr. We are currently in the process of moving from Vancouver Island to the East Kootenays in BC, its much more affordable, closer to family, and the outdoor access is better. We just signed a year lease for a place and with a roommate or two our rent would be $600 per month. We have 1 car a Mitsubishi Delica van from 2006 that is fully paid off (though its been more expensive and needed more maintenance than anticipated). With us moving at the end of August I am strongly debating a big leap and work transition.
The Work Situation: I am working for a local government on Vancouver Island, and I am currently on a maternity leave contract. The contract could end this coming October or in March 2023. Part of working for a local government is that you kind of have to be local(ish). Us moving to the East Kootenays from Vancouver Island makes my already expiring contract situation a bit more precarious. I informed by boss the other day that I don't want to sign another year lease in Victoria and broached the subject of her letting me ride out the last two months of the contract working remote. SHe is going to get back to me after the long weekend but it feels like one of two things are likely: either I get to work until around the end of October and finish out the last two months remotely, or my contract will end at the end of August when we leave Vancouver Island
The other part that is just as important if not more important; I HATE my job. It feels so soul crushing, I basically work full time remote as it is with the exception that we have to go into the office roughly once a week. I love the people I work with, but the work itself is absolutely soul crushing, I have an hour of work to do per day at most, and the rest of it I spend really bored. Its this awful paradox where I am always expected to be available, but don't actually have very much to do. The work I am doing involves working from behind a computer and I cant stand working at a desk. Im also one of those people where having very little structure and fulfilment in my work is a recipe for me to mentally spiral, over the course of this job, even though I have made more money then I ever have before, my mental health has never been worse. On the topic of fulfillment, i feel as though my work doesn't matter, and I never see progress in any of the work I am doing, maybe that's par for the course working for the government but I would so much rather work hard 4 days a week and have 3 days of time off for half the money. I also feel like this job has me passively experiencing the world, its like a life sentence being stapled to your house without actually having much of anything to do, I have a real craving for in person work and actually interacting with people in my community. This leads me to my thoughts on what I want to do when this contract is over...
Next Steps:
Basically ever since I went to grad school I have contemplating wanting a career in the trades, when I was in grad school for planning and architecture I worked in the summer on an organic farm and LOVED it, the hard work and getting my hands dirty, compared with being outside and seeing progress at the end of each day made me happy. I also worked as a carpenters helper in grad school and really enjoyed that work as well as helping out on odd projects.
I am debating stepping away from planning and architecture and a desk job and transitioning to either a plumbing or carpentry apprenticeship. I know the trades industry is short on people and I think if I could find the right company that valued patience and craftsmanship I could really enjoy myself. I love the idea of being able to mix school and work and learn a hands on skill. My big dream would be to start a tiny house building company.
My Concerns
Let me start this off by saying some of these are bullshit.. but here we go. I am concerned about the money, I have been able to save so much money this year working this job and going from $116k to $50-60K seems like a tough pill to swallow. I know we could do it and could manage but it would really extend my FIRE timeline and it feels like it would make money a bit tight (though I know this is at least someone what unfounded). We do have a good emergency funds and a decent savings rate but there is something about the scarcity associated with money that makes me nervous about this move.
The second thing is the culture of the trades, I know someone who teaches carpentry at the local college here on the island and he talked about how he had to work for 7 (!) companies before he found one that was a good fit. I also know the trades can be a bit of an old boys club with some outdated opinions and values that doesn't really jive well with me. I am a bit worried I wont get along as well on the job site as I do in the office, maybe that's all in my head though.
My final concern is that what if I don't like it/ am not good at it? I am worried for some reason that I will just be a bit incompetent or I will make too many mistakes. I am trying to remedy that by finding a company that values patience and teaching.
Specific Career Questions:
1. How would you gracefully negotiate leaving local government job?
2. Any suggestions on how to go about finding the right trades job/ company?
3. Should I take a break after ending local government job and before starting a trades job?
4. Are there things I am not thinking of when making this decision?
5. Am I just overthinking my concerns?