This is so true and a huge part of why I always prefer living in working class areas. Where we currently live, I think we're the only people I know of who have had braces.
That's "rich kid" shit here.
If you really want to short circuit your hedonic adaptation or FOMO try working at a homeless shelter like I have for the past 5 years. Whatever shit I might be dealing with is utterly eclipsed by about 9am on any particular day at work.
To be fair, you're responding to someone who has been homeless and has worked on and off in homeless shelters over many years, and makes a career of helping people whose lives are brutal. So yeah, kind of preaching to the choir, but still a very valid point.
That said, I've always found that no matter what populations I'm working with, that's work, and who I'm surrounded with in my personal life has a huge impact.
I've lived a lot of places and I will always prefer community-oriented, working class areas where what I consider "frugality" is actually pretty cushy. I've never enjoyed living in wealthier areas, the flagrant consumerism is just tedious to me. I find endless conversations where people talk to one another about what they spend on to be exhausting.
Of course there are plenty of poorer communities that aren't warm, they're scary and dangerous, and there are probably wealthier communities where people don't drone on about their spending. I've lived a lot of places, but a single human can only live in so many. But it's so consistent for me so far that I'll probably always stick with what I know I prefer.
Although, in the city where my condo is, the area is rapidly gentrifying and I dread the change. I can see it in the parking garage, the old beater cars are steadily being replaced by luxury sedans and SUVs. The rural Newfoundland village is also changing. Mainlanders with money, like me, are the only buyers for these 100+ year old houses, we're the only ones who want them and can afford to fix them up. So we're preserving the architectural history, but we're also slowly replacing locals.
Unfortunately, my favourite kind of community is also the exact kind of place that gets gentrified: low income, but nice enough for folks with money who are looking for a bargain and like those kind of communities to move in. Basically, if I buy somewhere, I am the exact problem that I dread.