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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #450 on: April 24, 2025, 09:25:08 AM »
I've got no sympathy for PP if he loses. He could have:

- not attacked JT so much that he forced him out and had to run against Carney
- not attacked Singh/NDP so much that they wilted and their voters moved to the Liberals
- not pissed off Singh so much personally that he could have convinced him to topple the Gov't back in 2024 when the NDP were polling as #2 and would have formed the official opposition
- started acting less douche bag attack dog-ish back in 2024 once he was 20% up and behaved like he could be a respectable prime minister so he'd be competitive with Carney now
- pivoted his campaign hard once the tariff/51st state things started and positioned himself as anti-MAGA instead of Maple MAGA-lite

I could go on. I mean Corey Teneycke's assessment that PP is performance is "campaign malpractice" is both accurate and pretty devastating coming from a Conservative insider that just delivered another majority Gov't in ON.

It's not like PP tried hard and got unlucky. He drove flew that campaign jet right into the side of a building smiling like a true believer.

Having compassion does not mean not holding someone accountable for their own actions.

Anyone can have compassion for anyone else, no matter what they do. All human behaviour is understandable, meaning all human behaviour can be observed through a lens of compassion.

That does not make it permissible behaviour and does not make it free of judgement. If you require approving of someone's behaviour to feel compassion for them, then that's not compassion.

I have A LOT of compassion for him, that doesn't mean I would want his outcomes to be any different. But paying the price for your own decisions is extremely painful and I have compassion for that pain and I hope he has really amazing supports that help him heal through that trauma to become a better person than he currently is.

I always, always wish healing on those who are awful because they're awful for a reason, and almost always because of unhealed pain.

So yeah, heaping boat loads of compassion in alongside the schadenfreude.

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« Reply #451 on: April 24, 2025, 09:32:53 AM »
I've got no sympathy for PP if he loses.

Having compassion does not mean not holding someone accountable for their own actions.

I'm not telling/suggesting how you should feel about PP. I'm just stating my opinion/feelings.

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« Reply #452 on: April 24, 2025, 11:01:58 AM »
Oof, my linked in is abound with older engineers appealing to voter's to consider xyz... and vote conservative. They are convinced C-69, the liberal debt will destroy us.

And it's filled with the language character assassination that we've seen for years against Trudeau. 'Unelected', 'Bureaucratic', 'lost decade', etc... all fear, no substance for building a future.

Popcorn indeed if PP loses on Monday. 


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« Reply #453 on: April 24, 2025, 12:02:18 PM »
The crazy thing is that by old party standards, in my opinion Carney would be a Red Tory.

The CPC stabbed Erin O'Toole in the back and picked Polievre over
Charest.  They've shown who they are.

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« Reply #454 on: April 24, 2025, 12:51:35 PM »
Conservatives are currently polling higher than they ever did under O'Toole, Scheer, and Harper (except in 2006, I believe). They've made big gains with males under 35. Even if they lose, they may end up with a historic result. I don't think PP goes anywhere unless it's a blowout majority or he loses his seat.

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« Reply #455 on: April 24, 2025, 04:31:27 PM »
It will be interesting to watch what happens on Monday. If he loses or barely wins his seat that'll really be a kick in the crotch for a guy who was getting his PM business cards printed in 2024.

As someone who personally dislikes him, it will absolutely tickle me pink to enjoy the schadenfreude of seeing him humiliate himself so completely. That's mean of me, but I can live with that.

It might not happen, but when I started this thread, it felt like an impossibility and now it's a highly plausible reality that he might lose. Less plausible is that he loses to a majority, and less plausible that he loses his own seat, but a combo of all 3 is not impossible.

I'm not sure I've ever seen that anywhere in history.

And for a career politician? I literally don't think there is a fate worse than that. Seriously, I cannot imagine dedicating your entire adult life to elected politics, securing your place as the next prime minister of probably a strong majority government, only to end up losing to a majority AND losing your own seat/job.

Again, that's not at all probable, but the fact that it's possible has to be plaguing him.

Which, if I think about too much, my natural compassion for his human experience kicks in, and the cloud of my personal disdain for him dissipates enough to suddenly think "fuck I hope he has a good therapist," but I can contain both my compassion and schadenfreude in the same space.

I'm so very curious how this will play out. If he wins, I'll be fucking gutted and I'll be the one needing really good therapy.
In 2007, our prime minister John Howard called an election. They were expected to win. But they lost, and he lost his seat to a female journalist. It had been about the safest seat in the country. He was a conservative politician who was often thought of as a misogynist, so this seemed fitting.
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« Reply #456 on: April 24, 2025, 05:03:28 PM »
It will be interesting to watch what happens on Monday. If he loses or barely wins his seat that'll really be a kick in the crotch for a guy who was getting his PM business cards printed in 2024.

As someone who personally dislikes him, it will absolutely tickle me pink to enjoy the schadenfreude of seeing him humiliate himself so completely. That's mean of me, but I can live with that.

It might not happen, but when I started this thread, it felt like an impossibility and now it's a highly plausible reality that he might lose. Less plausible is that he loses to a majority, and less plausible that he loses his own seat, but a combo of all 3 is not impossible.

I'm not sure I've ever seen that anywhere in history.

And for a career politician? I literally don't think there is a fate worse than that. Seriously, I cannot imagine dedicating your entire adult life to elected politics, securing your place as the next prime minister of probably a strong majority government, only to end up losing to a majority AND losing your own seat/job.

Again, that's not at all probable, but the fact that it's possible has to be plaguing him.

Which, if I think about too much, my natural compassion for his human experience kicks in, and the cloud of my personal disdain for him dissipates enough to suddenly think "fuck I hope he has a good therapist," but I can contain both my compassion and schadenfreude in the same space.

I'm so very curious how this will play out. If he wins, I'll be fucking gutted and I'll be the one needing really good therapy.
In 2007, our prime minister John Howard called an election. They were expected to win. But they lost, and he lost his seat to a female journalist. It had been about the safest seat in the country. He was a conservative politician who was often thought of as a misogynist, so this seemed fitting.

Fucking fantastic.

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« Reply #457 on: April 24, 2025, 08:45:32 PM »
I'm pretty sure my eldest will be voting conservative.  I still intend to drag him to the voting place on Monday because I think actually voting is more important than who you vote for.  Let him discover more complex nuance in electoral decision making later, right now get into the habit of voting and engaging.

I do think that there has been a rightward shift among young men in particular.  This is a complex topic, but we need to figure out how to access their empathy in their voting activity.  It isn't easy. 

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #458 on: April 25, 2025, 08:30:05 AM »
This is a complex topic, but we need to figure out how to access their empathy in their voting activity.

I don't think it's a lack of empathy.  Or at least, not on the part of young men.  There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.  In no particular order:

- The discussion around rape, sexual assault, and abuse of women is often very accusatory.  I've been told multiple times both that any male is an abuser of women, and also that any man needs to take responsibility for the abuse other men perpetrate.  I get where this sentiment is coming from, but it drives men away from the left.
- A similar issue involves discussion of sexual orientation, racism, and gender.  The language used to discuss these issues tends to be immediately blamey of men.
- There seems to be little positive reinforcement or message of positivity around masculinity in left wing groups/circles.
- Areas where the stats clearly indicate that young men are being left behind (like in education, where women are significantly outpacing their male counterparts) don't seem to garner much interest or motivation to change things.  Back when women were scoring lower, the left was very interested in figuring out why and putting in place policies to help them.
- There's also always been a bit of an anti-establishment push that comes from young men - a need to rebel.  As gay marriage, gender changing, women's rights, and anti-racism become more normalized and status quo they become targets for this rebellion.  The rebellion is enhanced and driven by how things are getting shittier for the younger generations rather than better - transfer of wealth away from the young to the older seems to have been accelerated in recent years.  It's harder to get ahead for younger people.  It's harder to buy a house.  It's harder to pay for education.
- There's certainly a radicalizing aspect to the algorithmic targeting that social media uses, which is more likely to connect young men with the Andrew Tates out there.
- The left has few traditional male role models, and doesn't seem to celebrate the ones that they have in the way that the right does.  (For example, Obama is celebrated for being black - but not for his masculinity.)

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« Reply #459 on: April 25, 2025, 05:53:13 PM »
This is a complex topic, but we need to figure out how to access their empathy in their voting activity.

I don't think it's a lack of empathy.  Or at least, not on the part of young men.  There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.  In no particular order:

- The discussion around rape, sexual assault, and abuse of women is often very accusatory.  I've been told multiple times both that any male is an abuser of women, and also that any man needs to take responsibility for the abuse other men perpetrate.  I get where this sentiment is coming from, but it drives men away from the left.
- A similar issue involves discussion of sexual orientation, racism, and gender.  The language used to discuss these issues tends to be immediately blamey of men.
- There seems to be little positive reinforcement or message of positivity around masculinity in left wing groups/circles.
- Areas where the stats clearly indicate that young men are being left behind (like in education, where women are significantly outpacing their male counterparts) don't seem to garner much interest or motivation to change things.  Back when women were scoring lower, the left was very interested in figuring out why and putting in place policies to help them.
- There's also always been a bit of an anti-establishment push that comes from young men - a need to rebel.  As gay marriage, gender changing, women's rights, and anti-racism become more normalized and status quo they become targets for this rebellion.  The rebellion is enhanced and driven by how things are getting shittier for the younger generations rather than better - transfer of wealth away from the young to the older seems to have been accelerated in recent years.  It's harder to get ahead for younger people.  It's harder to buy a house.  It's harder to pay for education.
- There's certainly a radicalizing aspect to the algorithmic targeting that social media uses, which is more likely to connect young men with the Andrew Tates out there.
- The left has few traditional male role models, and doesn't seem to celebrate the ones that they have in the way that the right does.  (For example, Obama is celebrated for being black - but not for his masculinity.)

Also the federal government and university job postings regularly state that white, cisgendered men will not be considered.

The answer to discrimination is not more discrimination.   It's no wonder there's pushback against DEI and "wokism".

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #460 on: April 25, 2025, 08:47:56 PM »
This is a complex topic, but we need to figure out how to access their empathy in their voting activity.

I don't think it's a lack of empathy.  Or at least, not on the part of young men.  There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.  In no particular order:

- The discussion around rape, sexual assault, and abuse of women is often very accusatory.  I've been told multiple times both that any male is an abuser of women, and also that any man needs to take responsibility for the abuse other men perpetrate.  I get where this sentiment is coming from, but it drives men away from the left.
- A similar issue involves discussion of sexual orientation, racism, and gender.  The language used to discuss these issues tends to be immediately blamey of men.
- There seems to be little positive reinforcement or message of positivity around masculinity in left wing groups/circles.
- Areas where the stats clearly indicate that young men are being left behind (like in education, where women are significantly outpacing their male counterparts) don't seem to garner much interest or motivation to change things.  Back when women were scoring lower, the left was very interested in figuring out why and putting in place policies to help them.
- There's also always been a bit of an anti-establishment push that comes from young men - a need to rebel.  As gay marriage, gender changing, women's rights, and anti-racism become more normalized and status quo they become targets for this rebellion.  The rebellion is enhanced and driven by how things are getting shittier for the younger generations rather than better - transfer of wealth away from the young to the older seems to have been accelerated in recent years.  It's harder to get ahead for younger people.  It's harder to buy a house.  It's harder to pay for education.
- There's certainly a radicalizing aspect to the algorithmic targeting that social media uses, which is more likely to connect young men with the Andrew Tates out there.
- The left has few traditional male role models, and doesn't seem to celebrate the ones that they have in the way that the right does.  (For example, Obama is celebrated for being black - but not for his masculinity.)

Also the federal government and university job postings regularly state that white, cisgendered men will not be considered.

The answer to discrimination is not more discrimination.   It's no wonder there's pushback against DEI and "wokism".

Could you post a link to one of these common job postings that you're talking about?

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #461 on: April 26, 2025, 12:44:17 AM »
There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.


I am cautious to discuss such things, but I think your list is pretty good. There was an excellent interview recently with Richard Reeves, author of the book Of Boys and Men, who did a good job of looking at these problems. I was impressed with how he (very sensitively) looked at these issues.

https://freakonomics.com/podcast/why-are-boys-and-men-in-trouble/

It is unfortunate that the political "right" has co-opted much of the voice for men in the public sphere.

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #462 on: April 26, 2025, 07:11:13 AM »

I think @RetiredAt63 gave a reasonable summary, but you're taking something said completely out of context to the point that it misrepresents the original point.  In context, the quote is discussing how DEI practices allow non-white-male-straight-Christians to be considered for jobs based on talent (rather than defaulting to white-male-straight-Christians and ignoring the others).  This seems to be exactly what you were arguing should happen - and you were calling it 'anti-DEI'.  What is the problem with that?

I cannot find current advertisements for the DEI fire fighters.  I am sure it's out there because I remember having conversations about it.  The closest thing I can find is this article. 
 https://www.ctvnews.ca/london/article/city-looking-for-women-gender-diverse-youth-or-transgender-youth-to-become-firefighters/

Ottawa was doing the same thing but going one step further with their radio and public transit advertising for the same thing.


I think @RetiredAt63 gave a reasonable summary, but you're taking something said completely out of context to the point that it misrepresents the original point.  In context, the quote is discussing how DEI practices allow non-white-male-straight-Christians to be considered for jobs based on talent (rather than defaulting to white-male-straight-Christians and ignoring the others).  This seems to be exactly what you were arguing should happen - and you were calling it 'anti-DEI'.  What is the problem with that?


I do completely agree with your take on it.  Everyone should be allowed.  The issue I see is that it points out DEI is anti-straight white male by definition.  The ctv article above shows the only people not welcome at the training camp would be straight white males.  If you want to get the DEI people to become firefighters or anything else, the answer is to be patient.  The current composition of our country is 70% white, so about 35% white male.  That will be naturally change over time.  So I guess my ideal solution is just wait for it, don't push for it. I think it's just my belief that central planning leads to many unintended consequences. 



There's no 'college of trades' nationally in Canada.  There was an Ontario College of Trades, but it was replaced by the Ford government in 2022 with 'Skilled Trades Ontario' (at the same time the province stopped enforcing skilled trade certification - https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/ontario-skilled-trades-enforcement-doug-ford-college-1.6109825).  Either way, I was unable to find any information corroborating your claims that being gay or not white gives electrical apprentices an extra 4000 to 8000 dollars.  Can you provide any evidence that this practice exists?

I am however, able to find evidence that minorities in the skilled trades are both under-represented and underpaid though - https://www.settler.ca/english/visible-minorities-in-the-canadian-skilled-trades-face-disparities/.  Given this information and your previous statements about the need to prioritize quality employees over racial hiring practices, I'm curious.  What would your solution be to reduce this disparity that is preventing these qualified minorities from being hired and paid at the same rate as white people?

Same question regarding the day to day sexism and under-representation of women in the skilled trades (https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/women-on-site-ontario-discrimination-trades-1.6823862, https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/women-construction-improvements-needed-1.7476610).  What solution do you think should be implemented to resolve this problem of men being hired because of their sex over equally or more qualified women?  Or to resolve the issue of skilled tradesmen not being willing to take women as apprentices so that they can become established in the field?


The name of the government agency that governs the trades changes its name every few years.  Since I started in 2010 there have been 4 different names.  I talked to a few people who recently went to trade school and got a bit of information.  I first remember the learning about the bonus government money given to DEI people in 2018.  When electrical apprentices were going to trade school they were asked a whole bunch of identity questions and they later found out that if they identified as the DEI group they would double their apprenticeship incentive grants.  When I recently talked to a newly licensed electrician he mentioned that when he last went to school he would have been able to get $4000 instead of the regular $2000 if he identified as a DEI person.  I told him that I can’t find anything about that online and he said he "heard rumors" that they aren’t asking that anymore.  I asked another recently licensed electrician and he said that he put down he identified as a woman to try and get the extra $2000 and that he was denied.  Both of these examples would have been from January 2024.  One of my employees also went to school in January 2024 and he also said the same DEI money was available if he answered the DEI questions.  I will look into using the way back machine to see if I can find more.  I asked the guy who put down he was female where he was asked this and he said it was on the registration for the apprenticeship incentive grant. 

I believe that minorities and women are under represented in the trades but I find it hard to believe they are underpaid.  The pay gap could be that minorities work for minority owned companies.  When I worked for a company owned by a Romanian Canadian it was mostly Romanians and Russians (all Canadian) that worked for him and we were all equally relatively underpaid.  I am very confident that everywhere I worked, there were no disparities in wages from the same level of employee to employee. 
From my experience, I have been the employee to first work with the new employees to get an evaluation.  With the ones that fit the DEI criteria, I only had a bad experience with one, who is Chinese, and I later found out it was a difference in cultures.  We talked about it after because I was very curious about it.  The issue was my boss told me to install lights one way, and the guy insisted we did it a different way.  I, being a good employee, wanted to do what my boss told me to do.  Him being a good Chinese Canadian wanted to do what he thought was the proper thing even if it goes against authority.
To get more minorities in the trade I think it's just a matter of time.  My personal experience is about 75% of the applications I get are middle eastern males.  It’s just a matter of time before the majority of electricians are middle eastern males.  I did want to hire one female applicant but my business partner did not want to at the time. 
When I was an employee I did work with a few females and many minority males.  Always earning the same amount.  I think the wage disparity will only be based on working for better or worse companies.  Once licensed it is very easy to find better or higher paying jobs.

One issue I see for hiring women is when you are on a jobsite without bathrooms, it is very common, less so since covid.  Men have an easier time with this. 
Another is from my experience.  I have worked with 5 women on different job sites (not very many).  4 of them were your typical feminine females and, even though they were paid the same, they were kind of protected from doing “man” work.  Never given the heavy or dirty work like the rest of us.  The other one that was treated the same is a person of colour.  She was great to work with.


The opportunity for women and DEI people to become electrical apprentices is there.  I believe it is currently as level of a playing field as it could get.  But knowing others in the trade helps immensely, especially when just starting out.


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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #463 on: April 26, 2025, 09:33:06 AM »
This is a complex topic, but we need to figure out how to access their empathy in their voting activity.

I don't think it's a lack of empathy.  Or at least, not on the part of young men.  There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.  In no particular order:

- The discussion around rape, sexual assault, and abuse of women is often very accusatory.  I've been told multiple times both that any male is an abuser of women, and also that any man needs to take responsibility for the abuse other men perpetrate.  I get where this sentiment is coming from, but it drives men away from the left.
- A similar issue involves discussion of sexual orientation, racism, and gender.  The language used to discuss these issues tends to be immediately blamey of men.
- There seems to be little positive reinforcement or message of positivity around masculinity in left wing groups/circles.
- Areas where the stats clearly indicate that young men are being left behind (like in education, where women are significantly outpacing their male counterparts) don't seem to garner much interest or motivation to change things.  Back when women were scoring lower, the left was very interested in figuring out why and putting in place policies to help them.
- There's also always been a bit of an anti-establishment push that comes from young men - a need to rebel.  As gay marriage, gender changing, women's rights, and anti-racism become more normalized and status quo they become targets for this rebellion.  The rebellion is enhanced and driven by how things are getting shittier for the younger generations rather than better - transfer of wealth away from the young to the older seems to have been accelerated in recent years.  It's harder to get ahead for younger people.  It's harder to buy a house.  It's harder to pay for education.
- There's certainly a radicalizing aspect to the algorithmic targeting that social media uses, which is more likely to connect young men with the Andrew Tates out there.
- The left has few traditional male role models, and doesn't seem to celebrate the ones that they have in the way that the right does.  (For example, Obama is celebrated for being black - but not for his masculinity.)

I typically work with younger males and this is what I see day in and day out.  I do my best to get them to take responsibility for their own financial choices and brought a few of them to MMM. 

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« Reply #464 on: April 26, 2025, 09:45:20 AM »
There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.


I am cautious to discuss such things, but I think your list is pretty good. There was an excellent interview recently with Richard Reeves, author of the book Of Boys and Men, who did a good job of looking at these problems. I was impressed with how he (very sensitively) looked at these issues.

https://freakonomics.com/podcast/why-are-boys-and-men-in-trouble/

It is unfortunate that the political "right" has co-opted much of the voice for men in the public sphere.

I would disagree with that being unfortunate.  The more unfortunate part would be the abandonment of the working class by the NDP.  The working class was there for the taking by any political party.  My dad grew up on a farm and always voted NDP because of that.  He is not up to date on where the current parties are and is still voting NDP.

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« Reply #465 on: April 26, 2025, 09:49:20 AM »
This is a complex topic, but we need to figure out how to access their empathy in their voting activity.

I don't think it's a lack of empathy.  Or at least, not on the part of young men.  There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.  In no particular order:

- The discussion around rape, sexual assault, and abuse of women is often very accusatory.  I've been told multiple times both that any male is an abuser of women, and also that any man needs to take responsibility for the abuse other men perpetrate.  I get where this sentiment is coming from, but it drives men away from the left.
- A similar issue involves discussion of sexual orientation, racism, and gender.  The language used to discuss these issues tends to be immediately blamey of men.
- There seems to be little positive reinforcement or message of positivity around masculinity in left wing groups/circles.
- Areas where the stats clearly indicate that young men are being left behind (like in education, where women are significantly outpacing their male counterparts) don't seem to garner much interest or motivation to change things.  Back when women were scoring lower, the left was very interested in figuring out why and putting in place policies to help them.
- There's also always been a bit of an anti-establishment push that comes from young men - a need to rebel.  As gay marriage, gender changing, women's rights, and anti-racism become more normalized and status quo they become targets for this rebellion.  The rebellion is enhanced and driven by how things are getting shittier for the younger generations rather than better - transfer of wealth away from the young to the older seems to have been accelerated in recent years.  It's harder to get ahead for younger people.  It's harder to buy a house.  It's harder to pay for education.
- There's certainly a radicalizing aspect to the algorithmic targeting that social media uses, which is more likely to connect young men with the Andrew Tates out there.
- The left has few traditional male role models, and doesn't seem to celebrate the ones that they have in the way that the right does.  (For example, Obama is celebrated for being black - but not for his masculinity.)

Also the federal government and university job postings regularly state that white, cisgendered men will not be considered.

The answer to discrimination is not more discrimination.   It's no wonder there's pushback against DEI and "wokism".

I used to see this all the time as well.  Now that I am looking for them, I am having a hard time finding them for some reason. 
I remember firefighters, police, library workers, pretty much anything from government was this way.

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #466 on: April 26, 2025, 09:50:10 AM »
This is a complex topic, but we need to figure out how to access their empathy in their voting activity.

I don't think it's a lack of empathy.  Or at least, not on the part of young men.  There have been several relatively recent movements that became popular on the left that have driven young men away.  In no particular order:

- The discussion around rape, sexual assault, and abuse of women is often very accusatory.  I've been told multiple times both that any male is an abuser of women, and also that any man needs to take responsibility for the abuse other men perpetrate.  I get where this sentiment is coming from, but it drives men away from the left.
- A similar issue involves discussion of sexual orientation, racism, and gender.  The language used to discuss these issues tends to be immediately blamey of men.
- There seems to be little positive reinforcement or message of positivity around masculinity in left wing groups/circles.
- Areas where the stats clearly indicate that young men are being left behind (like in education, where women are significantly outpacing their male counterparts) don't seem to garner much interest or motivation to change things.  Back when women were scoring lower, the left was very interested in figuring out why and putting in place policies to help them.
- There's also always been a bit of an anti-establishment push that comes from young men - a need to rebel.  As gay marriage, gender changing, women's rights, and anti-racism become more normalized and status quo they become targets for this rebellion.  The rebellion is enhanced and driven by how things are getting shittier for the younger generations rather than better - transfer of wealth away from the young to the older seems to have been accelerated in recent years.  It's harder to get ahead for younger people.  It's harder to buy a house.  It's harder to pay for education.
- There's certainly a radicalizing aspect to the algorithmic targeting that social media uses, which is more likely to connect young men with the Andrew Tates out there.
- The left has few traditional male role models, and doesn't seem to celebrate the ones that they have in the way that the right does.  (For example, Obama is celebrated for being black - but not for his masculinity.)

Also the federal government and university job postings regularly state that white, cisgendered men will not be considered.

The answer to discrimination is not more discrimination.   It's no wonder there's pushback against DEI and "wokism".

Could you post a link to one of these common job postings that you're talking about?

the closest I can find right now is this one:  https://www.uwo.ca/facultyrelations/careers/pdf/FINAL-AD_GSWS-Anthro.pdf    And it kind of makes sense, so I don't consider it as an example!    I'll see if I can turn up a real example.

Mostly what I'm seeing today is something like this:

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We value diversity and aim to provide an inclusive, barrier-free recruitment, selection and onboarding process to ensure that each candidate is treated respectfully. In accordance with the Employment Equity Act, you are invited to voluntarily self-identify with one or more of the four employment equity groups (women, Indigenous Peoples, persons with disabilities and members of visible minorities) by sending your application to the confidential email, ee@mint.ca that is accessed only by the Human Resources section.
  from this posting:   https://www.mint.ca/en/people/careers/advisor-corporate-health-safety-13-month-term

These are a bit less blantantly discriminatory against people who aren't in an employment equity group.

I'll see if I can track down a better example.    Organizations may have clued in over the last couple of years.


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« Reply #467 on: April 26, 2025, 09:52:11 AM »
  If you want to get the DEI people to become firefighters or anything else, the answer is to be patient.  The current composition of our country is 70% white, so about 35% white male.  That will be naturally change over time.  So I guess my ideal solution is just wait for it, don't push for it. I think it's just my belief that central planning leads to many unintended consequences. 
How long do you think they should wait? It's not like women and non-white people *just* got here. They've been here at least as long as white males (arguably much longer), and yet this isn't something that's solved itself in many generations without people pushing for it.

I think the wage disparity will only be based on working for better or worse companies.  Once licensed it is very easy to find better or higher paying jobs.
This is, indeed, one of the mechanisms that some groups end up with lower pay than others. But you are just making the assumption that everyone can find a better job based on your experience as a white male of always being able to find a better job. People tend to congregate in those types of jobs for a reason, and that reason isn't because they want lower pay. A lot of the time those people do not feel welcome in those higher paying companies (whether they actually aren't welcome or whether that's their perception is another issue).

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4 of them were your typical feminine females and, even though they were paid the same, they were kind of protected from doing “man” work.  Never given the heavy or dirty work like the rest of us.  The other one that was treated the same is a person of colour.  She was great to work with.
Did they ask to be "protected" from doing certain kinds of jobs, or did the foreman just assume they couldn't handle or didn't want that kind of work?

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The opportunity for women and DEI people to become electrical apprentices is there.  I believe it is currently as level of a playing field as it could get. 
The opportunity for your kids is certainly there as well, and about as good as it could possibly be. If you want any initiatives that bias towards non-white people to go away, just be patient. If a few generations they won't be necessary and will go away naturally, without you having to push against it.

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« Reply #468 on: April 26, 2025, 10:12:34 AM »
  If you want to get the DEI people to become firefighters or anything else, the answer is to be patient.  The current composition of our country is 70% white, so about 35% white male.  That will be naturally change over time.  So I guess my ideal solution is just wait for it, don't push for it. I think it's just my belief that central planning leads to many unintended consequences. 
How long do you think they should wait? It's not like women and non-white people *just* got here. They've been here at least as long as white males (arguably much longer), and yet this isn't something that's solved itself in many generations without people pushing for it.

I think the wage disparity will only be based on working for better or worse companies.  Once licensed it is very easy to find better or higher paying jobs.
This is, indeed, one of the mechanisms that some groups end up with lower pay than others. But you are just making the assumption that everyone can find a better job based on your experience as a white male of always being able to find a better job. People tend to congregate in those types of jobs for a reason, and that reason isn't because they want lower pay. A lot of the time those people do not feel welcome in those higher paying companies (whether they actually aren't welcome or whether that's their perception is another issue).

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4 of them were your typical feminine females and, even though they were paid the same, they were kind of protected from doing “man” work.  Never given the heavy or dirty work like the rest of us.  The other one that was treated the same is a person of colour.  She was great to work with.
Did they ask to be "protected" from doing certain kinds of jobs, or did the foreman just assume they couldn't handle or didn't want that kind of work?

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The opportunity for women and DEI people to become electrical apprentices is there.  I believe it is currently as level of a playing field as it could get. 
The opportunity for your kids is certainly there as well, and about as good as it could possibly be. If you want any initiatives that bias towards non-white people to go away, just be patient. If a few generations they won't be necessary and will go away naturally, without you having to push against it.

How about long enough so we don't have to discriminate against anyone based on anything other than merit.  Women being in the workforce has been around my whole life, but not my grandparents.  Not all women want to be in the workforce.  There are alot of stay at home moms that I know of, and zero stay at home dads.

The Romanian Canadians liked working with other Romanian Canadians.  They hated working with Israeli Canadians.  Every single company I have worked for has had DEI people, even before DEI was a thing.

They did not ask to be protected.  It was just what happened and what I would predict to happen going forward.

The opportunity might not be there if they happen to be the wrong skin colour at the wrong time.  For example, the CTV article I put forward.  I suggest to include identity factors while hiring.

The incentives look like they might be disappearing already.

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« Reply #469 on: April 26, 2025, 10:29:55 AM »
What are you actually talking about?

A discussion about women in the workforce has very little to do with women who want to stay home. Salary disparities, working conditions, challenges getting training or in the door or getting hired because you're seen as a woman first rather than your profession are all issues - and dropping in "but some women want to stay home" as though that had any relevance for women who have selected to pursue a career is just bananas, and muddies the discussion as though women "don't really want to be there" or "aren't as engaged" or "don't care as much about working" and perpetuates this exact problem.

I'm the working partner in our family, and thanks to MMM my husband quit his job when we reached leanFIRE which then naturally translated into him being a SAHD when we had kids.

Equality is about giving everyone the ability to make the choices that are right for them, not dictating which options are available. And sometimes people are only given terrible choices because of who they are and not what they can do, which sucks, and that's what all the protections discussed here are about dealing with.

When a group has gotten used to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Equity, not equality, is about leveling the playing field so qualified folks regardless of their background are considered. In a perfect world, equity and equality would be the same thing. But we're not there yet.

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« Reply #470 on: April 26, 2025, 11:32:34 AM »
Women being in the workforce has been around my whole life, but not my grandparents.
Yeah, and this change didn't occur because women simply sat around and waited for it.

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The policies for more equitable hiring practices have been around since the 80's, so it's been "a thing" a lot longer than your career. Although the fact that you call people with different background than your "DEI people" is certainly revealing.

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They did not ask to be protected.  It was just what happened and what I would predict to happen going forward.
Exactly. They were not assigned certain tasks because the foreman (or whoever) did not think they were capable of carrying them out on account of them being women. The exact same mind set is present when the same people are deciding who to hire.

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« Reply #471 on: April 26, 2025, 11:48:57 AM »
When a group has gotten used to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Equity, not equality, is about leveling the playing field so qualified folks regardless of their background are considered. In a perfect world, equity and equality would be the same thing. But we're not there yet.

Thank-you !! this 100%

I see so many people get all conspiracy theory or scream that they (regular typical white dudes) are being discriminated against when often the wording is merely to provide space and opportunity which is most every call for volunteers, committee members, leaders, political candidates, jobs, training, etc and etc. Encouraging a people that typically haven't had an opportunity or providing incentives/encouragement in no way hinders any other group.

Decency, respect, empathy and compassion are so dearly missing from our communities and society this past decade. The most privileged are often the loudest in the room that act like they are being attacked or having something taken away.


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« Reply #472 on: April 26, 2025, 01:10:58 PM »
I used "DEI people" instead typing out "everyone but straight white male".  I just used it as an efficiency helper.  The LGBTQ2IA+ were on to something.

I know the change didn't happen because women just sat around.  During WW2 (when my grandparents were alive) a lot of the working aged men went overseas and women took over to supply the workforce.  The typical household at that time had a single income.  I think it was the second wave feminism that was pushing to get women out of the house.   The hiring practices have been around since the '80's, but they seem to have become much more aggressive or direct with them from about 2013.  Well that's when I started seeing them go way beyond what the CRAF provided.

I don't think you have been on a job site to think that women can do every job a man can do.  I can't even do every job that a man can do and I am a healthy in-shape male.  They were given jobs that were less dirty or required less strength.  100%.  I'm not even saying that's a bad thing.  I would do the same thing.  Just like in WW2 the women were not sent to war.  They helped out other ways but not sent off to do the dirty work.

I am not saying anything negative about stay at home parents.  I thought I was just stating the obvious that there are more stay at home moms than dads.  I was using it as a way to show the number of women in the work force might be smaller than the number of men.  I do believe it does in fact have relevance on the career choices of women and is not a bunch of berries.  I don't think I was muddying any water with this statement and was not implying that women did not want to work, or are not engaged, or anything negative about women.
That's great that one of you decided to stay home with the kids.  We had that discussion in our household as well, also thanks in part to MMM, and we decided that although my wife made more than me, she would be the one that stays home.  We are both very grateful that we made that decision.  I am glad you know the difference between equity and equality, you are one of the what seems like 15% that do.  I think equality is the simpler and better way to go, everyone provided with the same opportunity.  If we go down the equity route then we open ourselves up to many problems of who to help or who to handicap.  Whoever is in charge will decide who needs the help and who needs the handicap.  That is not what I would want in our society.


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« Reply #473 on: April 26, 2025, 06:55:14 PM »
I don't think you have been on a job site to think that women can do every job a man can do.  I can't even do every job that a man can do and I am a healthy in-shape male.  They were given jobs that were less dirty or required less strength.  100%.  I'm not even saying that's a bad thing.  I would do the same thing.  Just like in WW2 the women were not sent to war.  They helped out other ways but not sent off to do the dirty work.
Oh, I'm so curious now as to what you think is too "dirty" for the average woman to be able to do, but not an average man? It sure as hell isn't war fighting, since there's plenty of women doing so as we speak (including women electricians in the military, coincidentally enough). It turns out that things have indeed changed since the 1940's, just not everyone's attitudes.

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« Reply #474 on: April 26, 2025, 08:10:29 PM »
Since it was mentioned above.  You know how to let women know they are not welcome without having to say anything?  Don't provide washrooms.   It doesn't take much, just one porta potty (or more, depending on total number of users), with a handwashing station attached.  They are easy to rent.  Not doing so sends a nonverbal message very clearly.

Plus as Caroline Criado-Perez points out in Invisible Women,  things are  built for men.  "Standard" men.  So most women may not be able to operate heavy equipment because it doesn't fit them.  It won't fit men who are also not "standard", like a lot of south-east Asian men.

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« Reply #475 on: April 26, 2025, 08:13:10 PM »
Right, but when you're taking about people who have already opted into being in the workforce, mentioning as an aside that some haven't isn't really relevant to the discussion.

I'm a programmer, and I used to work on a team that was very heavily demo-focused, building software for prototype hardware that didn't really exist yet. When we built demos, we often had to physically build out spaces, move equipment and furniture around, what have you.

I typically went to work in the "coder uniform" of a t-shirt bunnyhug, and jeans, but sometimes I would wear dresses because I like them and sometimes I just felt like being fancy.

It was actually amazing how one day, no one batted an eye at me setting up demos, moving equipment, running cables, or any of that work, and the next, it was "oh Sayyadina, don't trouble yourself to move those cords! I've got it! You can hit the elevator button!". You can be absolutely sure that I did not allow them to help carry a small box of hardware from one building to the next simply because I was in a skirt. (And if you're wondering, same shoes between the two days. I'm very weirdly particular about my footwear).

Anyway, can I believe people are making assumptions about your "feminine" worker's capabilities without consulting them? Absolutely.

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« Reply #476 on: April 26, 2025, 09:22:17 PM »
I don't think you have been on a job site to think that women can do every job a man can do.  I can't even do every job that a man can do and I am a healthy in-shape male.  They were given jobs that were less dirty or required less strength.  100%.  I'm not even saying that's a bad thing.  I would do the same thing.  Just like in WW2 the women were not sent to war.  They helped out other ways but not sent off to do the dirty work.
Oh, I'm so curious now as to what you think is too "dirty" for the average woman to be able to do, but not an average man? It sure as hell isn't war fighting, since there's plenty of women doing so as we speak (including women electricians in the military, coincidentally enough). It turns out that things have indeed changed since the 1940's, just not everyone's attitudes.

It's not too dirty for the average woman.  I personally feel bad telling grown men to do a job that is going to get them covered in shit that is likely going to cause illness later in life.  I would feel even worse telling a young woman to do that.  I cant help it, maybe I'm old school.  As a pitcher growing up I got in trouble from the feminist gym teacher because I couldn't pitch at 100% effort against the most girls.   I could with one that was good at baseball but not with the ones that had no experience playing baseball.  I am aware things have changed since the 40's. 
There is work that exists that takes strength to complete.  The average man is stronger than the average woman.  When I work with someone that is clearly stronger than me I usually let them do the work that requires more strength.  When I am the stronger worker, I do the work that requires strength.   I did say earlier that I didn't necessarily think that it was a bad idea. 
Are there women in the JTF or JTF2?  And if there is not, do you think there should be?



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« Reply #477 on: April 26, 2025, 09:33:00 PM »
Since it was mentioned above.  You know how to let women know they are not welcome without having to say anything?  Don't provide washrooms.   It doesn't take much, just one porta potty (or more, depending on total number of users), with a handwashing station attached.  They are easy to rent.  Not doing so sends a nonverbal message very clearly.

Plus as Caroline Criado-Perez points out in Invisible Women,  things are  built for men.  "Standard" men.  So most women may not be able to operate heavy equipment because it doesn't fit them.  It won't fit men who are also not "standard", like a lot of south-east Asian men.

The lack of bathrooms is another thing that is the same for everyone.  One of the good things that came from covid was they provided bathrooms with water to wash your hands.  Before covid that was uncommon.  Back in 2013 on one site we had an issue of people taking a shit in the stairwells because the outhouse was too full. 
On one site in 2015 there was an outhouse for the foreman, one for the 200 or so workers on the ground, and one for thirty or so people on the roof.   On that site I opened the outhouse door and laughed. The shit was piled above the level of the seat by a few inches.  I laughed because I don't know how the last few people did that.  I decided to hold it until I biked home.
Most work sites these days have washrooms but it is still not uncommon to not have any.


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« Reply #478 on: April 26, 2025, 09:50:21 PM »
On a side note, the middle eastern men that I have worked with do not have a very favorable or "western" view of women.  The Romanian people as well for that matter.  One memorable conversation with one of the Romanians I worked with, he said that Canadian men must be so stupid to have let women get as much power as they have.  He literally couldn't believe it and that topic came up often.  These people grew up in their home countries and not here.
So there is the chance that with more immigrant minorities on the job site, it will become less welcoming towards women. 

And none of this has anything to do with money.

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« Reply #479 on: April 27, 2025, 01:46:32 AM »
Are there women in the JTF or JTF2?  And if there is not, do you think there should be?
Yes, there are. All the units of CANSOFCOM have women in them, as do all the other branches of the military.

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« Reply #480 on: April 27, 2025, 06:24:01 AM »
Are there women in the JTF or JTF2?  And if there is not, do you think there should be?
Yes, there are. All the units of CANSOFCOM have women in them, as do all the other branches of the military.

I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?

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« Reply #481 on: April 27, 2025, 07:10:01 AM »
Since it was mentioned above.  You know how to let women know they are not welcome without having to say anything?  Don't provide washrooms.   It doesn't take much, just one porta potty (or more, depending on total number of users), with a handwashing station attached.  They are easy to rent.  Not doing so sends a nonverbal message very clearly.

Plus as Caroline Criado-Perez points out in Invisible Women,  things are  built for men.  "Standard" men.  So most women may not be able to operate heavy equipment because it doesn't fit them.  It won't fit men who are also not "standard", like a lot of south-east Asian men.

The lack of bathrooms is another thing that is the same for everyone.  One of the good things that came from covid was they provided bathrooms with water to wash your hands.  Before covid that was uncommon.  Back in 2013 on one site we had an issue of people taking a shit in the stairwells because the outhouse was too full. 
On one site in 2015 there was an outhouse for the foreman, one for the 200 or so workers on the ground, and one for thirty or so people on the roof.   On that site I opened the outhouse door and laughed. The shit was piled above the level of the seat by a few inches.  I laughed because I don't know how the last few people did that.  I decided to hold it until I biked home.
Most work sites these days have washrooms but it is still not uncommon to not have any.

I have often heard that improving things for whoever improves things for everyone.  This is an example.   Men shouldn't have to put up with that.

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« Reply #482 on: April 27, 2025, 08:20:12 AM »
I saw an election lawn sign yesterday Even Trudeau Votes Poilievre.  Of course not su-able since somewhere there is someone with the last name of Trudeau who will vote Conservative.  But really?

This is the wildest campaign I've seen in a while.  Last fuss about a leader's riding was when Maxine Bernier went far right in his reliably Conservative riding.  He lost to the Conservative candidate.

It's a shame that the old Progressive Conservative party merged with Reform instead of doing the slog of rebuilding the party.  Because now its Reform (or something even more right wing) with the Conservative label.

Tomorrow night will be interesting.

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« Reply #483 on: April 27, 2025, 08:36:11 AM »
It will be interesting.  It looks very tight in what I have been seeing.  The betting odds are 3 to 1 the Conservatives win and 1 to 6 the Liberals win.  I think they are off so I put a few fun dollars on the Conservatives because I think it should be closer to 1 to 1.
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« Reply #484 on: April 27, 2025, 09:22:20 AM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?
What did you hear the physical requirements are?

No, they did not lower them for women. You seem to be hung up on the physical aspect, as that is what you think differentiates men from women in their ability to do the job. The reality is that, while important, physical strength is not what makes someone good at that particular job, or almost any other job. None of those people are olympic weight lifters, they have the right balance of physical, mental, and emotional characteristics required for that position.

This is the point that people have been trying to get through to you. The efforts to recruit women and other underrepresented groups do not mean you hire unqualified or underqualified people. There has been a big push even in organizations like CANSOFCOM to hire a more diverse pool, not just because of equity or fairness, but because that increases operational effectiveness. These efforts aim to remove barriers to entry that should not be there in the first place, such as the perceptions that only a certain group is desired or can do the job, and encourage more people who are potentially qualified to apply to try out.

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

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« Reply #485 on: April 27, 2025, 10:29:29 AM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?
What did you hear the physical requirements are?

No, they did not lower them for women. You seem to be hung up on the physical aspect, as that is what you think differentiates men from women in their ability to do the job. The reality is that, while important, physical strength is not what makes someone good at that particular job, or almost any other job. None of those people are olympic weight lifters, they have the right balance of physical, mental, and emotional characteristics required for that position.

This is the point that people have been trying to get through to you. The efforts to recruit women and other underrepresented groups do not mean you hire unqualified or underqualified people. There has been a big push even in organizations like CANSOFCOM to hire a more diverse pool, not just because of equity or fairness, but because that increases operational effectiveness. These efforts aim to remove barriers to entry that should not be there in the first place, such as the perceptions that only a certain group is desired or can do the job, and encourage more people who are potentially qualified to apply to try out.

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

People who know nothing about DEI seem to have some pretty strong opinions about it...

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« Reply #486 on: April 27, 2025, 10:36:52 AM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?
What did you hear the physical requirements are?

No, they did not lower them for women. You seem to be hung up on the physical aspect, as that is what you think differentiates men from women in their ability to do the job. The reality is that, while important, physical strength is not what makes someone good at that particular job, or almost any other job. None of those people are olympic weight lifters, they have the right balance of physical, mental, and emotional characteristics required for that position.

This is the point that people have been trying to get through to you. The efforts to recruit women and other underrepresented groups do not mean you hire unqualified or underqualified people. There has been a big push even in organizations like CANSOFCOM to hire a more diverse pool, not just because of equity or fairness, but because that increases operational effectiveness. These efforts aim to remove barriers to entry that should not be there in the first place, such as the perceptions that only a certain group is desired or can do the job, and encourage more people who are potentially qualified to apply to try out.

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

That's awesome.  From who I know in other government agencies, the government knows what they are doing when they pick people. 
I hard about the physical requirements from one of my employees and from a podcast with the Canadian sniper that had the world record for longest confirmed hit. 
There is lots of evidence that shows the increase in effectiveness with a diverse group like you mentioned. 
It wouldn't expect any weightlifters or even most pro athletes to be well rounded enough to make the cut.
 
From what I hear, there is recruitment issue in the Canadian military.  Is this correct in your opinion?  If so what do you know of with them trying to fix the problem?

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« Reply #487 on: April 27, 2025, 10:40:03 AM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?
What did you hear the physical requirements are?

No, they did not lower them for women. You seem to be hung up on the physical aspect, as that is what you think differentiates men from women in their ability to do the job. The reality is that, while important, physical strength is not what makes someone good at that particular job, or almost any other job. None of those people are olympic weight lifters, they have the right balance of physical, mental, and emotional characteristics required for that position.

This is the point that people have been trying to get through to you. The efforts to recruit women and other underrepresented groups do not mean you hire unqualified or underqualified people. There has been a big push even in organizations like CANSOFCOM to hire a more diverse pool, not just because of equity or fairness, but because that increases operational effectiveness. These efforts aim to remove barriers to entry that should not be there in the first place, such as the perceptions that only a certain group is desired or can do the job, and encourage more people who are potentially qualified to apply to try out.

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

People who know nothing about DEI seem to have some pretty strong opinions about it...

I have strong opinions about many things.  I do like to seek the truth about many topics.  I am happy when I am wrong because I can then correct my beliefs.

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #488 on: April 27, 2025, 11:42:34 AM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

Yep. In fact, Carney has correctly pointed out that US talent losses can become our gain if we remain committed to DEI principles.

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« Reply #489 on: April 27, 2025, 01:41:00 PM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

Yep. In fact, Carney has correctly pointed out that US talent losses can become our gain if we remain committed to DEI principles.

Exactly, the world will be scavenging up all of the talent that the US is fucking over right now, and we should be very proactively vacuuming up as many as possible.

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« Reply #490 on: April 27, 2025, 02:38:10 PM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

Yep. In fact, Carney has correctly pointed out that US talent losses can become our gain if we remain committed to DEI principles.

Exactly, the world will be scavenging up all of the talent that the US is fucking over right now, and we should be very proactively vacuuming up as many as possible.

I think there are a lot of medical professionals who are actively thinking about the move, and we definitely can put them to work right away.  I met a couple a few weeks ago at a family funeral - the nurse practitioner had just been laid off from the VA, and the doctor was sick of dealing with insurance companies.

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« Reply #491 on: April 27, 2025, 02:57:09 PM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

Yep. In fact, Carney has correctly pointed out that US talent losses can become our gain if we remain committed to DEI principles.

Exactly, the world will be scavenging up all of the talent that the US is fucking over right now, and we should be very proactively vacuuming up as many as possible.

I think there are a lot of medical professionals who are actively thinking about the move, and we definitely can put them to work right away.  I met a couple a few weeks ago at a family funeral - the nurse practitioner had just been laid off from the VA, and the doctor was sick of dealing with insurance companies.

I was once in a very, very expensive CE program in Miami with healthcare professionals from all over the US, and the number of emotional breakdowns the Americans had throughout the week over frustration with their system was nuts, and that was close to a decade ago.

I can't even imagine how fed up they must be now. I would like to see Canada make it absurdly easy for healthcare professionals to come up here and aggressively market that as an option.

We have a healthcare crisis and an opportunity right now. But it requires coordination between the federal and provincial governments and provincial colleges.

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« Reply #492 on: April 27, 2025, 03:48:03 PM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

Yep. In fact, Carney has correctly pointed out that US talent losses can become our gain if we remain committed to DEI principles.

Exactly, the world will be scavenging up all of the talent that the US is fucking over right now, and we should be very proactively vacuuming up as many as possible.

I think there are a lot of medical professionals who are actively thinking about the move, and we definitely can put them to work right away.  I met a couple a few weeks ago at a family funeral - the nurse practitioner had just been laid off from the VA, and the doctor was sick of dealing with insurance companies.

I was once in a very, very expensive CE program in Miami with healthcare professionals from all over the US, and the number of emotional breakdowns the Americans had throughout the week over frustration with their system was nuts, and that was close to a decade ago.

I can't even imagine how fed up they must be now. I would like to see Canada make it absurdly easy for healthcare professionals to come up here and aggressively market that as an option.

We have a healthcare crisis and an opportunity right now. But it requires coordination between the federal and provincial governments and provincial colleges.

Who would be the best person to contact to get this idea rolling?  I bet all premiers would be up for this as well as whoever wins tomorrow.

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« Reply #493 on: April 27, 2025, 04:41:55 PM »
I am surprised with that based on what I heard the physical requirements are.  If they didn't lower the physical requirements then that's pretty impressive.  Do you know if they lowered the physical requirements for women?

I think the anti-DEI push in the US is going to cost many organization a lot of high quality people. Fomenting a similar mindset in Canada would hurt the country in many ways.

Yep. In fact, Carney has correctly pointed out that US talent losses can become our gain if we remain committed to DEI principles.

Exactly, the world will be scavenging up all of the talent that the US is fucking over right now, and we should be very proactively vacuuming up as many as possible.

I think there are a lot of medical professionals who are actively thinking about the move, and we definitely can put them to work right away.  I met a couple a few weeks ago at a family funeral - the nurse practitioner had just been laid off from the VA, and the doctor was sick of dealing with insurance companies.

I was once in a very, very expensive CE program in Miami with healthcare professionals from all over the US, and the number of emotional breakdowns the Americans had throughout the week over frustration with their system was nuts, and that was close to a decade ago.

I can't even imagine how fed up they must be now. I would like to see Canada make it absurdly easy for healthcare professionals to come up here and aggressively market that as an option.

We have a healthcare crisis and an opportunity right now. But it requires coordination between the federal and provincial governments and provincial colleges.

Who would be the best person to contact to get this idea rolling?  I bet all premiers would be up for this as well as whoever wins tomorrow.

It's not a simple thing, the biggest barrier is immigration and licensing regulations, which are extremely complex, that's 3 layers of governance involved.

I'm sure you're aware though that this is a huge part of Carney's messaging though, that the provinces and regulatory bodies will be expected to remove a lot of these barriers very quickly.

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #494 on: April 27, 2025, 04:46:01 PM »

I think @RetiredAt63 gave a reasonable summary, but you're taking something said completely out of context to the point that it misrepresents the original point.  In context, the quote is discussing how DEI practices allow non-white-male-straight-Christians to be considered for jobs based on talent (rather than defaulting to white-male-straight-Christians and ignoring the others).  This seems to be exactly what you were arguing should happen - and you were calling it 'anti-DEI'.  What is the problem with that?

I cannot find current advertisements for the DEI fire fighters.  I am sure it's out there because I remember having conversations about it.  The closest thing I can find is this article. 
 https://www.ctvnews.ca/london/article/city-looking-for-women-gender-diverse-youth-or-transgender-youth-to-become-firefighters/

Ottawa was doing the same thing but going one step further with their radio and public transit advertising for the same thing.

Currently about 3% of firefighters in Ontario are women (https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/female-firefighters-bullying-sexual-harassment-fifth-estate-1.3305509).  Women in firefighting face challenges that men do not - like sexual harassment and a 'boy's club' culture that excludes women.  There has also been a long standing push for exclusionary physical tests that are not needed to actually do the job (according to a BC Supreme Court case - https://decisions.scc-csc.ca/scc-csc/scc-csc/en/item/1724/index.do), but performed the task of weeding out female recruits.  In an attempt to counterbalance these structural problems that cause so many women to turn away from a career in fire fighting, a few cities have chosen to offer specific early training programs and camps to try to garner support among women.  I'm guessing that 'gender diverse' and 'transgender' were added in there for the same reason that women were.

This is quite different from hiring an unqualified person because she is a woman, or because they are transgender though.  This is an attempt to right an existing wrong and create a larger pool of qualified candidates to choose from.  I'm not sure exactly where you see the problem here.  Could you clarify a bit?




I think @RetiredAt63 gave a reasonable summary, but you're taking something said completely out of context to the point that it misrepresents the original point.  In context, the quote is discussing how DEI practices allow non-white-male-straight-Christians to be considered for jobs based on talent (rather than defaulting to white-male-straight-Christians and ignoring the others).  This seems to be exactly what you were arguing should happen - and you were calling it 'anti-DEI'.  What is the problem with that?


I do completely agree with your take on it.  Everyone should be allowed.  The issue I see is that it points out DEI is anti-straight white male by definition.  The ctv article above shows the only people not welcome at the training camp would be straight white males.  If you want to get the DEI people to become firefighters or anything else, the answer is to be patient.  The current composition of our country is 70% white, so about 35% white male.  That will be naturally change over time.  So I guess my ideal solution is just wait for it, don't push for it. I think it's just my belief that central planning leads to many unintended consequences.

Central planning certainly can lead to many unintended consequences, and I have no problem with questioning why something is being done.  But your solution to the problem of existing inequality that heavily favours only one specific group (the white, male, straight one that keeps being discussed) is to simply hope it goes away.

Women did not get the right to vote by waiting for someone to give it to them.  They had to fight very hard for it.  Equal treatment for black people in Canada didn't just happen by waiting for someone to give it to them.  It required a lot of fighting and pushing before it was ratified as part of our constitution.  Gay people did not just get rights here in Canada . . . they had to fight for them.  I can't think of many (any?) times that a socially marginalized people have simply been handed a big win without a period of struggle and slowly changing perceptions.  Given this, it seems unreasonable to expect people who are currently being discriminated against systemically by the our social structures to simply wait for things to get better.  That feels more like giving up on a solution to an existing problem than I'm comfortable with.




There's no 'college of trades' nationally in Canada.  There was an Ontario College of Trades, but it was replaced by the Ford government in 2022 with 'Skilled Trades Ontario' (at the same time the province stopped enforcing skilled trade certification - https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/ontario-skilled-trades-enforcement-doug-ford-college-1.6109825).  Either way, I was unable to find any information corroborating your claims that being gay or not white gives electrical apprentices an extra 4000 to 8000 dollars.  Can you provide any evidence that this practice exists?

I am however, able to find evidence that minorities in the skilled trades are both under-represented and underpaid though - https://www.settler.ca/english/visible-minorities-in-the-canadian-skilled-trades-face-disparities/.  Given this information and your previous statements about the need to prioritize quality employees over racial hiring practices, I'm curious.  What would your solution be to reduce this disparity that is preventing these qualified minorities from being hired and paid at the same rate as white people?

Same question regarding the day to day sexism and under-representation of women in the skilled trades (https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/women-on-site-ontario-discrimination-trades-1.6823862, https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/women-construction-improvements-needed-1.7476610).  What solution do you think should be implemented to resolve this problem of men being hired because of their sex over equally or more qualified women?  Or to resolve the issue of skilled tradesmen not being willing to take women as apprentices so that they can become established in the field?


The name of the government agency that governs the trades changes its name every few years.  Since I started in 2010 there have been 4 different names.  I talked to a few people who recently went to trade school and got a bit of information.  I first remember the learning about the bonus government money given to DEI people in 2018.  When electrical apprentices were going to trade school they were asked a whole bunch of identity questions and they later found out that if they identified as the DEI group they would double their apprenticeship incentive grants.  When I recently talked to a newly licensed electrician he mentioned that when he last went to school he would have been able to get $4000 instead of the regular $2000 if he identified as a DEI person.  I told him that I can’t find anything about that online and he said he "heard rumors" that they aren’t asking that anymore.  I asked another recently licensed electrician and he said that he put down he identified as a woman to try and get the extra $2000 and that he was denied.  Both of these examples would have been from January 2024.  One of my employees also went to school in January 2024 and he also said the same DEI money was available if he answered the DEI questions.  I will look into using the way back machine to see if I can find more.  I asked the guy who put down he was female where he was asked this and he said it was on the registration for the apprenticeship incentive grant. 

I believe that minorities and women are under represented in the trades but I find it hard to believe they are underpaid.  The pay gap could be that minorities work for minority owned companies.  When I worked for a company owned by a Romanian Canadian it was mostly Romanians and Russians (all Canadian) that worked for him and we were all equally relatively underpaid.  I am very confident that everywhere I worked, there were no disparities in wages from the same level of employee to employee. 
From my experience, I have been the employee to first work with the new employees to get an evaluation.  With the ones that fit the DEI criteria, I only had a bad experience with one, who is Chinese, and I later found out it was a difference in cultures.  We talked about it after because I was very curious about it.  The issue was my boss told me to install lights one way, and the guy insisted we did it a different way.  I, being a good employee, wanted to do what my boss told me to do.  Him being a good Chinese Canadian wanted to do what he thought was the proper thing even if it goes against authority.
To get more minorities in the trade I think it's just a matter of time.  My personal experience is about 75% of the applications I get are middle eastern males.  It’s just a matter of time before the majority of electricians are middle eastern males.  I did want to hire one female applicant but my business partner did not want to at the time. 
When I was an employee I did work with a few females and many minority males.  Always earning the same amount.  I think the wage disparity will only be based on working for better or worse companies.  Once licensed it is very easy to find better or higher paying jobs.

You just mentioned that you were personally involved in what appears to be a discriminatory hiring decision.  You wanted to hire a woman (so I'm guessing that she was qualified), but your partner didn't feel comfortable hiring her because she was a woman.  This type of hiring decision is made all the time . . . and it makes it harder for women, minorities, gay people, trans people, those with disabilities, etc. to get hired into roles in trades.

Once licensed it is very easy to find better or higher paying jobs.  But this only holds true if you're not going to run into biased hiring decisions like the one just outlined, right?



One issue I see for hiring women is when you are on a jobsite without bathrooms, it is very common, less so since covid.  Men have an easier time with this.

My understanding is that the latest OSHA requirements in Ontario specify that some sort of washroom facility is required on all construction job sites now (https://oasisontario.on.ca/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/MOLITSD-Hygiene-Facilities-on-Construction-Projects-2.pdf) - likely because of complaints about the discriminatory practice you outlined that drives away qualified women from the field.  So this isn't an excuse to avoid hiring women any more.



Another is from my experience.  I have worked with 5 women on different job sites (not very many).  4 of them were your typical feminine females and, even though they were paid the same, they were kind of protected from doing “man” work.  Never given the heavy or dirty work like the rest of us.  The other one that was treated the same is a person of colour.  She was great to work with.

If people treat a woman as though she's unable to do her job, and don't assign her work that is part of the job . . . what you're describing is pretty awful discrimination.  Whether the woman looks 'feminine' or not has no bearing on the matter.  This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard.  The problem there is the idiot 'protecting' the woman from the work she signed up to do.  It does a disservice to the company, to the woman (who isn't getting proper work experience on the job), and to the other people working there who now have to pick up extra slack.  It also gives people a reason to continue with discriminatory hiring practices.  "Oh, we can't get a woman - because we won't give her work if we do."



But knowing others in the trade helps immensely, especially when just starting out.

This is true of any profession.  Having contacts and role models helps tremendously.  This is why initiatives like the one that you don't like and mentioned at the top there exist.  There currently are very few women firefighters.  Because of this it's harder for a woman to find a contact/role model/mentor than for a guy to do the same.  Hence the need for the program, right?

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #495 on: April 27, 2025, 06:24:34 PM »
You just mentioned that you were personally involved in what appears to be a discriminatory hiring decision.  You wanted to hire a woman (so I'm guessing that she was qualified), but your partner didn't feel comfortable hiring her because she was a woman.  This type of hiring decision is made all the time . . . and it makes it harder for women, minorities, gay people, trans people, those with disabilities, etc. to get hired into roles in trades.

Once licensed it is very easy to find better or higher paying jobs.  But this only holds true if you're not going to run into biased hiring decisions like the one just outlined, right?



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One issue I see for hiring women is when you are on a jobsite without bathrooms, it is very common, less so since covid.  Men have an easier time with this.

My understanding is that the latest OSHA requirements in Ontario specify that some sort of washroom facility is required on all construction job sites now (https://oasisontario.on.ca/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/MOLITSD-Hygiene-Facilities-on-Construction-Projects-2.pdf) - likely because of complaints about the discriminatory practice you outlined that drives away qualified women from the field.  So this isn't an excuse to avoid hiring women any more.


It was not discriminatory hiring practices.  An overly qualified woman wanted a job.  I thought it would be great to have someone way overly qualified.  My business partners argument was that we were not busy enough at the time to justify another employee.  He was correct.  It would have been great to have her, but it did not make financial sense at the time.   My business partner is a guy I introduced to MMM back in 2017 and he went hard down the rabbit hole.


I know OSHA requirements exist on paper.  Back when I was an employee I used to joke that it was called "the trades" because we traded our rights away for a decent job.  I cant really joke about that anymore.

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Re: I guess today is the day
« Reply #496 on: April 28, 2025, 06:39:34 AM »
TODAY IS THE DAY!

If you didn't vote early, vote now!

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« Reply #497 on: April 28, 2025, 08:24:44 AM »
Just voted.  My wife and I are new Canadians (became citizens a little over a year ago) so this is our first election.  Eager to see the results tonight!

Apropos of nothing, a couple of days ago, my wife had a voicemail and she said it was our local MP.  I said it was a robo-MP (assuming it was some sort of automated call).  In fact, it was our actual MP, calling based on some feedback he'd gotten from his street team earlier in the week.  Ultimately, this is neither here nor there as far as who we're going to vote for, but coming from the States (where I have only ever gotten robo-calls, and many of them) I was pretty surprised.

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« Reply #498 on: April 28, 2025, 08:46:39 AM »
I voted! Debated between voting strategically or with my heart and heart won. But hoping for a good result in my riding and nationally!

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« Reply #499 on: April 28, 2025, 09:40:37 AM »
I voted! Debated between voting strategically or with my heart and heart won. But hoping for a good result in my riding and nationally!

This is why I really want a ranked ballot... vote with my heart first, strategically second.

Especially for municipal councilors. We often have so many excellent choices, while the 'money' seems to really be able to pressure people out of the race, leaving one candidate... vote splits abound!