Yes, I know--all of you are right. However, here's the sitch:
We need a hauler because my husband hauls live sound gear and recording gear for his business. Our original plan was to purchase something that could haul a trailer with a heavy load, but we figured out an alternative and this will just be used for the smaller loads, which allows us to buy the smallest possible hauler. But they are heavy loads nonetheless. His hauling does a number on vehicles, it broke the axle on a Conversion Ford E150 van (220,000 miles). So, yeah. Not to mention we have a small child and live in Michigan. I'm sorry if this isn't mustachian, but his safety in a 4WD vehicle on snowy roads is just more important to me than saving 5K. As to why I will drive the SUV on my commute, I have a significantly longer commute and it's more dangerous in the winter (highway driving in Michigan in February...scary). But we hope in a few years to replace my 2000 VW Golf(190,000 miles) with a Prius, and we are hoping by then I am no longer commuting so far. It would function as our about-town car and our car for short trips, and DH would use the small SUV for getting to work in town and hauling for his business. We felt like the smallest SUV we could find plus a Prius or compact hatchback is a pretty great combo. We thought about a minivan but we didn't feel that we needed that much space. We can do a hitch and a small trailer with the SUV if needed.
As for the loan? We have no choice. We have a hair on fire debt emergency. We are aggressively putting ALL of our extra cash on our highest interest rate debt. We are going to pay off $40+K in CC debt within 2-3 years, which is awesome. We were hoping not to purchase a vehicle until after that time so we could pay cash, but the van axle went, so we are stuck. It also needs new brakes and tires, and at 220,000 miles, our mechanic told us it wasn't worth it because he could easily find other problems once he gets in there and works on it. Actually, we will probably pay the new SUV off early, but for now the 72- month term allows us to put all of the extra money we can into higher interest debt rather than putting it on a 3.25% car payment. We started out with a much shorter term and then realized it made no sense. Once the credit cars are paid, the next priority debt will be mortgage or car debt.
Make sense?