Hey everyone! First post here on the Money Moustache forums. I've recently gotten into this blog and financial indepedence in general, and it's been a blast so far! I do have a question about my situation right now, and I'm hoping the friendly people at the forums could give me some guidance. It's not really a financial question, but more a question about balancing work / life priorities. Basically I have a choice between a 20 minute walking commute near home, or follow my current (and fantastic) manager to a new team, hoping to learn and get promoted. Let me give some background about my life first.
I am a 22 years old living with my girlfriend in San Francisco, and I work down in the South Bay. I commute by train, usually 1 hour 15 minute each way (barring the occasional delay). I know it's quite longer than moustachian standards, but it is on a train so I am free to spend the time how I wish. Now to be fair I'm not saying I'm fully productive on the train, but it's definitely not a waste of time either. I usually end up listening to podcasts, audiobooks, falling asleep reading books, reading articles on my phone (like this blog), and playing games on my phone. Also once in a while I will drive to work too, for various reasons. It usually ends up being about 2-3 times a month, and total round trip is 76 miles (with pretty bad traffic at times), so $38 dollars at .50 cents a gallon
I have been at my current job and team for almost 2 years now, joining Feb 2013 straight out of college. At that time, my company only had an office in South Bay. However last August, they opened up a San Francisco office that is 20 minutes away from where I live. That's 20 minutes WALKING DISTANCE! Why did I not jump on this right away?
Well the thing is last August, my team got a new manager who is honestly amazing. In a little over a year, I've learned so much from him, watching he approaches problems and leads the team. He's definitely been a mentor to me, and plays a big factor in why I enjoy my job so much. When they opened the San Francisco office, I made a conscious decision not to switch over in order to stay working for my manager. My thinking was, the #1 factor to workplace happiness is a good manager, and I love working for this guy. Sure moving to SF will cut my commute by a quarter, but I'm kind of used to it and I can do stuff on the train anyway.
A month ago, my manager told me that he was switching teams. I then had a choice as to my next career move. I could either
1. Stay on current team
2. Move to SF office
3. Follow him to his new team.
I chose to follow him to the new team. I'm pretty sure I'm about 2-3 quarters away from getting promoted, since I have built up quite a bit of good will with my manager. I didn't want to "reset" that by working under someone else.
Hope you're still with me, here is where the current situation comes in. I am already in the middle of the transition to the new team, kind of caught between worlds right now. However just last week my company had an enormous reorg, and literally everyone is getting shuffled around. My manager is now going to be switching to a third completely different team altogether.
Now I am faced with a dilemma of possible choices.
1. Should I stay with the team I just switched to only a month ago? The single biggest reason why I even decided to switch over in the first place was to work under my manager, and that factor has been eliminated. This is probably my least favorite choice.
2. Should I try to follow my manager again? It almost feels kind of embarrassing at this point that I've followed him twice in such short succession. He says he doesn't know if he will have room for me on his new team.
3. At this point, should I just move to San Francisco? I'm not sure if I'm freaking myself out about this whole promotion thing and "resetting" under a new manager thing. I'm sure there's some truth in that... But perhaps losing the commute will be worth it.
I guess I'm just wondering if it is reasonable to try and stay with the same manager for so long, even as he is getting switched back and forth. I have definitely learned a lot from him and he's a pleasure to work with, but perhaps its time for me to move on with my life. He definitely likes me a lot though, so I think my promotion chances will be better with him than a random other person I need to build up a relationship with. However, realistically a promotion won't be for another year probably, so I'm looking at another year of commuting.
I also find it hard to judge how much benefit the shorter commute will give me. Certainly losing two hours a day of travel time will be fantastic, but I do end up being semi-productive during that travel time anyway. I will get to spend more time enjoying the city life that I am paying for. It'll be much more convenient for anything I need to stay at home for, instead of battling train and traffic all the time. I don't know how the managers in SF office are, but I truly believe my company is full of great people so I have no reason to believe they won't be great either.
Thoughts? Any advice would be appreciated, as I am truly torn right now. Sorry it's was such a long post!