Dear all,
Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm seeking wisdom for a bit of a conundrum, but I'll try to make this brief, to avoid a whole case study.
my stats: 24, recently married, working in QC for 2.5 years for one company that was acquired by larger company, has bachelor's degree.
Spouse: 32, graduated last December with a bachelor's, working as test engineer for niche market for small company, on fast track for a promotion.
The situation: My company's plant is closing down in March and have offered to relocated me from Chicago to upstate SC, where HQ is. I do not love my current job, but they would be relocating me for particular knowledge needed to move this plant's operation to HQ, and I would be free to jump to another department after a year and a half or so. This is appealing since it would make breaking into a different line of work more accessible, without the need for more schooling. We visited Greenville and like it a lot, and it seems things would be slightly cheaper there, which is a plus, as we want to be homeowners within the next few years.
The negatives, however... this move would require spouse to find a new job, which seem plentiful in that area, but it would necessitate they start again in entry-level, whereas they're soon able to move up if we stay here. My relocation would be paid for by the company, but would not result in an increased salary. My big hang up is that our entire families are in the Chicagoland area, and I already feel the guilt of a thousand suns for considering moving, and I really resent that feeling of being "trapped."
How do we approach this decision? I feel like if it were strictly a career and long-term financial decision, we should move, but I don't know if can shake the emotional aspect of losing the familial support, especially since we're considering having kids in a few years. Is this just a problem of trying to "have it all" at once, and being disappointed that either way we choose, we can't?
I will try to respond to any suggestions or questions, but cannot promise promptness. Thank you!