I currently attend a university 60 miles from my house. No, don't choke on your bulk discount coffee -- I attend tuition-free and receive a stipend, so it is my job. I usually can manage my schedule to make the 90-minute commute only once or twice a week. Each roundtrip costs me about $20. (I have applied to switch to a university 3 miles from home, but we have to see if they accept me.)
This semester, I have the option to take a required course online. Scandalously, this involves a $2000 online fee, which is not waived in my tuition waiver (those dirty scoundrels). Or I can drive up there and take it in person. Here are the issues:
I will need to get to campus one early morning a week (leave 7:30 am) for my teaching duties. I can arrange that to be the same day as the in-person class, which meets 2-4. This would make for one trip per week, one very long day (7:30-6, by the time I pick up the kids), no time for a real dinner (evening family sports activity 6:30-8:15 that can't be moved and represents both family time and commitment to health/fitness). Furthermore, I promised my youngest that she wouldn't have to do afterschool this term ($12 per session), and there is no afterschool at the middle school, so I'd have to give the older kids some money to sit, snack, and do homework at a nearby deli until I arrive. In other words, 14 weeks of American Rat Race Mondays.
Paying the $2000 ($143/week) doesn't save me the cost of a commute or the wasted driving time because I will still have to get up there one early morning each week. I could, however leave at noon, and be home for the kids, cook dinner, and generally live more calmly.
I should also mention that $2000 is 20% of my stipend, and therefore a seriously heavy expense. We can technically afford it, but it will hit hard. Taking this class (in whatever format) will put me in an excellent position at the end of the term, allowing me to apply for jobs earlier, so putting the course off is not a good option. I'd have to replace it with something rather dopey and useless.
Well, what would you do?