If it's an apartment in a large apartment building, it's very likely that the heat is included in the common charges payable to the association/management company that manages the building. And that is typically included in the rent payable (so you as a tenant just pay rent to your landlord who in turn pays the common charge that usually includes heat, hot water, maintenance of the common areas, etc.). Other utilities (gas for cooking, electricity) are usually metered separately and payable by the tenant at regular intervals. At least that is how it works in Poland, unless your apartment has an individual heating unit (not very common). You should check with your landlord to see what the story is. If the heat is included in the common charge, then just set the individual radiators by turning the knobs at the level that feels comfortable to you and leave it be. Your individual usage will not affect the overall common charge.