Update: The initial announcement was vague and while they said "all levels" they have since said it will focus on those closest to retirement age first so I will need to wait at least a couple more months to see if there are any left. My discussion with HR was essentially "don't count on it being an option" based on my high performance and relatively low level in the company... Seems like they want to cut more middle manager types and/or people coasting it out for a few more years, not those that actually do the work. Pretty disappointing but as a thought exercise, I got a lot out of it. It definitely showed me that I'm ready to leave as soon as I hit FI (don't plan on RE).
I'm grateful that I'm in a position to leave if/when I find a more attractive opportunity but finding that opportunity is a tough one.
@Zamboni You make a great point about leaving regardless of severance. It would take a lot to leave our current area (wife's entire family lives here, we love our community/school). There are other medium size midwest cities within a 2 hour radius that would probably work but it would be a tough sell to uproot and move beyond that at this life stage.
I'm leaning towards more of a career downshift instead of a lateral move I just don't know what to pursue and I'm too burned out to think about going back to school.
My current plan is to stay put at my job, stop caring/trying to outperform (recovering overachieving perfectionist here) , put as much as we can into taxable investments and cash (for flexibility and more options), support my wife in her efforts to return to the workforce part-time as early as this fall (younger kid starts pre-school) and reach FI ASAP. At that point I can pursue my "dream job" which is to work 20-30 hours per week for 40 weeks per year. I would try a bunch of part time jobs without having to worry about the money (bicycle mechanic, city park worker, short term rental administrator, adjunct professor, bartender/barista, home inspector, lab technician etc.) while getting either ACA healthcare or insurance through my wife's eventual employer.
The thought of going from one full-time corporate job to another doesn't sound very appealing unless it comes with the severance or a massive increase in pay and decrease in BS which doesn't seem likely.
Feel free to offer other advice or different perspectives and again, thank you all for your insights. I'm grateful I found this community in my early 20s, truly life-changing stuff. Cheers.