Why on EARTH would you go to ASU for engineering when you would have been in-state for OSU? Honestly, that alone is a very poor choice.
And then following it up with lies and a spoiled attitude? Ridiculous, why are you even on the forum if you're only upset you got caught? I sure as hell hope this is someone trolling.
I didn't get accepted at OSU.
This should have been a sign that you would find it tough the first couple of years....
Realize that your Dad, when told about the expulsion, had to suddenly realize two things...1, that maybe OSU was right and you/ he threw good money away, and that you were in trouble for two years and 2. he could have really helped you, (advice, refocus, new school, support, been on your side, whatever) but you wouldn't let him. Instead the lying was the worst thing about this post.
I suggest that you make a weekly meeting with you parents, over lunch, to just start talking about what you want to do, what you did that week, ask for their input, discuss school or work or whatever. As an adult, the nice thing is that it is OK to listen, but not DO things you disagree with.
Also, realize that unless all the loans are in your name, you are spending your Dad's money. I would never spend $500 without talking to my DH and that is MY money.
So, some inspiration..
If you can mend your relationship and get on top of financial expenses,
My DH was kicked out of engineering after second year too. (Grade probation). He spent a year living with parents making up classes at local college, and did very well. But engineering was going to still be a struggle, so he chose not to go back when reaccepted, but took a 2 year programming tech diploma. Yes, he only made $30k for first two years, but with his skills and ability ( the ones that a test doesn't measure, like honesty and people skills and keeping solutions simple), he ended up as a software architect for a small company making $100 k within 5yrs.
Today, you may need a full degree, but the college level STEM degree does not hold you back from getting to the top.
But
stop hiding and lying...you will go nowhere if you can't transform the way you treat others. Start by practicing on your parents.