Currently, a car salesman at a moderately big dealership. I'm not doing too well, as sales definitely is VERY unnatural to me, and I'm only making $1,600 after taxes. Which would be alright, I guess, but I fear that my poor performance will mean that it will soon be $0.
What I really want to do is public service jobs. I'd do police gladly, but really would love to do firefighting. Problem is, I live in WV. Departments are small, and openings are rare. I have a fitness test for my local police next Month, but I honestly doubt I'll pass it. I'll do everything I can to, but I think I just need more time to lose weight and get in shape before I'll pass the running portion.
But even if I somehow got on with the local PD, again, it's a small department. Lots of small-town politics, hard to move-up, poor pay, and just not the lifestyle I want.
Been with my GF for 3 years, lived with for 1. I could see myself marrying this girl, but a big problem is location. Now, she has a year left of school, which is fine. Wherever I went, I'd stay there while she finished and then joined me. Only problem is, she won't leave WV. I not only don't like the small departments, I can't trust that WV would have the money to pay my pension for 50 years. It's just too big of a risk for me.
I'd really like to live south, like where I grew up in south Florida. I would ideally like to apply to every big-city FD in the state, and get on with whichever one called me back first. They'd pay better, increased COL is VERY overstated (for example, LCOL from Morgantown to Tampa, and things like gas, food, and insurance won't raise proportionately like rent would). I like the weather SO MUCH better, and it's just the lifestyle I want.
Not ideal, but I'd be willing to even go to Cleveland or Philly if I had to. But I can't wait 3 years to get hired. I'm already struggling to keep this job, in my opinion, and I want to get on somewhere else before I'm fired and put into a REALLY bad financial position.
Basically, how do you deal with a SO that can't stand to be even a 4 hour drive from her mother? It would limit us far too much, especially with her major, where it's already hard to find something decent without a Master's (psychology).
I've thought about just applying, and hoping she'd follow, but I'm not quite sure if that's fair to her. But, staying ONLY in the immediate area is not fair to me. What would you guys suggest?
P.S. Know any mid-size or big cities hiring firefighters right now?