I'm somewhat new to the MMM thing but have always been frugal throughout my life. My husband is 35 and I'm 32. We currently have a net of 350 K which includes my estimated 130 K cash out for my pension if I quit today. We have no children at the moment but we are trying. Right now we are saving 2K a month for our retirement without including the pension amounts. My pension is one of the best since I'm a government employee and it won't disappear overnight (Knock on wood).
I plan on working until 55 since my pension(adjusted for inflation) will be available then and I my husband would like to retire around the same time.
My question is I have 4-5 weeks of paid vacation every year but my husband gets 3 weeks. He does have the option to take 2 additional weeks and take a cut in pay. This would be roughly cost us no more than 2K a year.
Also hopefully by next year I maybe pregnant and this would give him extra time to spend with me and baby if all stars align :) I realize that once the baby comes we will be paying for childcare (after 1st year since I get full pay for first year) and our savings will be going down to probably 1K a month.
Would you trade money over time since we don't plan on FIRE until another 20 years?