I'm at a bit of a weird place in life at the moment.
We're up to about 1.3 mil invested, and in addition to that have a fully paid off home worth about 800k, a substantial amount set aside for my son's education (little over 100k), and no loans or debt of any kind. I could comfortably quit tomorrow. And for many, many, many years the plan was . . . as soon as I've got enough to quit, I'd quit. There are a huge number of things that I have lined up to do 'when there's more time' from writing more music, to playing more live music, to spending more time with my son, to some long distance bikepacking trips, to renovating our house.
But I'm kinda enjoying my work at the moment. Or at least I don't find it as stressful and terrible as I found my previous few jobs. I like the people I work with and enjoy hiring and being a co-op mentor every few months. Some aspects of work suck, but overall I'm good with it. My boss gave me an unexpected and huge raise out of the blue last year, so he seems happy with what I'm doing. I've certainly been enjoying the 'mostly working from home' option during this pandemic (it's incredible how much even a short 30 minute commute sucks the fun out of the day - and I've been sleeping a solid 9 hrs a night for the last six months . . . which after half a decade of serious insomnia problems is unbelievable). It's unknown how or if things will change this fall when it seems very likely that we'll be heading back to the office.
I expect that if I do retire, that's pretty much it forever more as far as my high earnings days go and there doesn't seem to be a burning need to quit at the moment. I'm also not sure if retiring would be setting a bad example for my son, who we're trying to instill a good work ethic into. I'm also feeling some weird things - slightly nervous that maybe I've misjudged everything and won't be very happy retired, concerned that I'll need more money to deal with the ecological death spiral that we're continuing to push the planet into, concerned that it would be stupid to not take advantage of the big salary bump for at least a few years. But I'm also 40 years old now. Several close friends have recently died. Time is ticking away, and men in my family don't tend to live very long. Is being complacent on this costing me? Things seem less clear to me than they did when I was miserably slaving away at a company and job that I hated ten years ago.