Your post demonstrates a lot of contempt for your wife.
+1
Every time I read a post like this, I try to imagine the other person writing their version. Normally it doesn't take much imagination to write an equally "wow this person looks horrible" post.
Ooh, challenge accepted.
Please help!!! My husband has always been so supportive of me, when I took the job of my dreams, when we told my parents he was so supportive and excited for me! Then we got pregnant, our dreams were coming true!! I'd always dreamed of being a SAHM.
Unfortunately the start up I had been working super hard towards never got off the ground, and I was laid off after 2 months. My morning sickness/pregnancy has been so bad/tiring, I haven't been able to get a new job (I've tried, but its not easy to get a job with morning sickness and while visibly pregnant!)
It is okay, because now we are going to be parents, and I'll be a SAHM just like my mother was. I cant imagine putting my baby into the care of strangers. There is so much to do to prepare the house, and get ready to be a Mom.
I'm also trying to leverage the skills I have into a career that is flexible and could continue after baby is born (consultant), so I can try to contribute to our growing household.
Fiancée has been wonderful and has paid our mortgage for me until he moved in. He has done it gladly, without me asking for it. I'm so glad he was willing to step up and support his family. (Presumably he also paid for a (fancy?) wedding during this time, so 'our' family could be complete?).
I can't wait for my parents and family to meet our new bundle of joy - family is so important. We will take the baby to see them, and celebrate later this year.
Up until this point, husband had been so supportive and encouraging of our future together. We were on track together, and now, suddenly, it's like he's flipped a switch.
He is being so unkind to me, making snarky comments, insinuating I'm lazy and acting like I'm taking advantage of him, telling me that, if it wasn't for him, I'd be homeless, that I should somehow be working full-time to support him with a baby on the way?
He has been trying to tell me I cant go and see my family on a holiday this year, that my work experience is useless, and suddenly my career plans aren't good enough?
It's like everything was wonderful, when suddenly, my husband completely changed and it's making me stressed and miserable!
My body is changing, I feel so tired, fat, and unsexy. I cry all the time. He's not supportive and caring like he used to be. I can tell he resents me, and I worry, maybe he resents the baby too? And I'm pregnant and have no money and have no idea what to do?! Please help!
Edited to add: I have no strong opinions about the situation one way or the other (other than, obviously, counselling for you both), am just accepting the challenge to post from the perspective of OP's partner. I don't know OP, could be totally off base.