Thanks for such a thorough reply aoptic!
From the discussions I have had with management so far, they care about me as far as the work I do. They have little care about the lifestyle I would like to have. Very few of my coworkers have been here more than 18 months and those that have live their work. Way less than 50% of the team has been here for 18 months, in fact since I started ~1/3 of the team has left. The on-call schedule is set in stone, I have tried suggesting rotations that could be better for a life/work balance to no avail. I am going to propose some changes again before making my decision to stay/leave. There is really not flex-time from the regular 8-5, aside from scheduled appointments.
As far as weather goes, I appreciate people like you who manage to get out regardless of weather. I should add that my life passion right now is mountain biking (and that is really what I mean by get outdoors). I bike when it is crazy hot, snowing, windy, and can tolerate rain as long as the trails are not impacted. With saturated trails though, I do not think it is fun or responsible to get out biking on the trails.
I will say, I agree that I need to ditch the poor me thoughts and find other activities to do outside(or in) rain or shine.
Thanks again for your response, it helps me have more things to think about.