Oh, boy.
$25,000 financed car on a take home salary of $48k (approx) per year. You have it financed over more than 3 years, too, which is always a poor choice IMO. Maybe you were in a higher income when you purchased it, but sometimes we lose our jobs (as you see), so paying down major committed debt in a shorter time is always a good idea.
Your monthly spend on it really should be closer to $550 per month, if it were based on 3 years financing. If you want to stop the insane car payment, in fewer years, please add $150 to $200 per month to it.
Note, car cost need to add $100 gas, $88 insurance, and let's say $22 maintenance, per month, for a nice round number: "Real" Total car cost, using 3 years of financing only, is $760. That is close to 35% of your total expenses.
Guessing that you put $2k down on it, that is one nice car. Could you buy an econobox instead, even a new one with four seats? There must be one on the market now, and you can sell your car and switch out for $10k savings..?
I would then throw money into an emergency savings account (use it for tuition if you don't need it first), then increase your non-locked in investments, Roth etc.
Overall, you are doing fine, with 33%+ savings rate (income versus expenses), and more income likely on the way, so roll over the 401k.
(please double check that you have all your expenses listed, though, I don't see property tax, presents for christmas, vacations, home repairs, etc)
