My 2c:
You've already addressed your biggest short-term issues. Paying off the CC was a good call. 25k in savings is pretty reasonable -- I maintain something similar when I'm not budgeting for a big expense and/or stashing it for taxes on a high-consulting year, and I've got a kid. Of course, I also have tenure, so I'm not too worried about suddenly getting laid off, either. <shameless grin>
I also think you're fine on the student loans. You could pay them off faster or slower; doesn't matter. If the rates suddenly go sky high, you could pay them off by cashing in some of the taxable investments you'll have accumulated in the meantime. Right now, at 2.9%, you'll be doing slightly better by keeping things in the market, but if it were me, I'd continue a slightly accelerated payoff combined with putting a lot in investments. I view it as a slight bit of investment diversification, and getting it paid off gives you some cash flow advantages.
You're paying a decent bit of insurance - have you looked into a high-deductible plan w/HSA? Typically cheaper; you're basically self-insuring for modest (< $1-5k) amounts. Once you've stuffed your emergency fund back up to 5-10k, you might investigate this as a way to save a few hundred per year. Ignore me if you have health conditions that require a lot of visits.
(Your cell phone is expensive, btw. Try Cricket - or Google Fi if you have a compatible plan. I made a little spreadsheet to compare the different options:
http://da-data.blogspot.com/2015/10/comparing-prepaid-cell-plans-public.html . There's very little reason for most people to pay more than $35/month for the plan.)
But I want to address instead a slightly longer-term set of things:
(a) Tax planning. You're in a painful range for income taxes, as you've no doubt noticed: You don't make enough to use the really advanced ways of reducing them, but you make enough that you pay a lot. Maxing out the 401k is an excellent start. Given that you're renting, you're probably not itemizing yet, but when you go find/meet with an accountant, make a list of all of the potentially-deductible things you do: Subscriptions to professional publications; any CLE you have to pay for yourself. I assume you bill clients for travel time & mileage & parking at clients; but if you ever don't (or do it pro bono), you can deduct that, but you have to record it with a fine-toothed comb. Sorry for the mixed metaphor.
If all of your billing is through your firm, you're probably out of luck on things like home office deductions, but if you do any direct work, consider that stuff too.
(b) Keeping expenses low in the next 5 years. This is the big one - when people are commenting on the potential price of your wedding, there's a generalization there: You make a relatively large amount of money; what can you do to prevent lifestyle inflation as you claw out of your 200k student loan debt? Cultivating a mindset now of trying to cap some of the major expenses is a pretty good plan, and a very very wise one in your field. I've known too many lawyers who get burned out but don't quite have the savings to switch tracks or retire, because they raise their spending to be proportional to their income. On the flip side, if you can keep a lid on the expenses, you'll be in awesome shape in 10 years.
15k isn't extravagant by "normal" standards for a wedding, but you *are* posting here... :-) You might take on as a small challenge trying to reduce this. Two of my friends got married in a field at 9000 feet in Colorado, with family & friends all staying at a B&B, and integrated multiple days of hiking, etc., for far less than most spend on a traditional wedding -- and it was one of the most fun and memorable weddings I've been to. Finding something that's more personally significant to you and your partner can be a great basis for avoiding the insane money-sink that is the traditional wedding industry. (We had a non-9000-feet wedding because we had some grandparents who couldn't make it otherwise, but, e.g., my wife found an awesome dress at BCBG maxazria for < $200, and we had a multi-day celebration where one of the days was at a picnic spot in the mountains. I think we paid a whopping $45 to rent it for the day. ;-)