Background: My fiance (age 25) and I (age 30) currently reside in the Tampa area. Both employed, combined income of $125K to $160K (depending on bonus). We're working on the mustachian lifestyle with a current savings rate estimated at 50% to 60%. We have no debt, recently paying off the mortgage on the current house.
Challenge: Transportation costs are one of our highest spending categories (and my commute can be very frustrating). Tampa is notorious for poor infrastructure, lack of public transportation, thus requiring you to need a car. I don't see leaving this area as a desirable option: two jobs we both like/appreciate and are doing well in, close to family (free baby sitting for when we have kids in a few years), and generally enjoy the area (although I've lived here my entire life).
Question: Should we move to a different location in Tampa or are the moving / relocation costs not worth it? I reside 32 miles from work (each way) with my commute time ranging from 45 minutes on the way in to 45-75 minutes on the way home depending on traffic. I drive a Camry with 122K miles and plan on continuing to drive it. My fiance drives 10 miles to work each way, taking less than 30 minutes. She drives a 2005 Jeep Liberty with 95K miles.
Notes: We have talked about real estate as a potential investment vehicle. Prices in Tampa have gone up a good amount, but the 1% rule should still be applicable. There are a couple locations that are central to both jobs and would result in drives of 10-15 miles each way (doesn't help her, but my drive is cut in more than half). One location is viewed as up and coming, prices are reasonable, but the school districts aren't desirable. The other location has some of the best public schools in the nation, but prices are high.
I can give any additional information that would be helpful, but am extremely thankful for any input and ideas you guys have!