Ok, my 2 cents and I'm going to be blunt and, um, indiscreet:
-- don't move yet, give it 3 more years so you can save tons
-- focus on friends, not dating. Anything you can do with a date, you can't do with friends, except sex
--keep masturbating, you've been doing it this long, it does the trick and you get it right each time
-- keep traveling, meet the hot sexy people you want to on your trips, maybe you'll strike gold and someone will move to you?
--keep yourself focused on hobbies and things that will make you interesting: learn languages, learn to cook like a chef, learn to build or fix things, take massage lessons
-- get your company to send you to conferences, trade shows and pay for more education-maybe an MBA or something that will make you more employable when you do move
-- be careful of the grass is greener thinking. Work on yourself, the right person will be attracted to you when the time is right. Right now, build your nest eggs, you're still young. You're really not messing out on anything you can't give yourself.
Again, just some thoughts, apologies in advance for any offense ;-)
Best of luck
Lol, no offense taken! I think most Mustachians are open minded enough to appreciate such advice. Glad to hear an opinion on the opposite side, it seems like the overwhelming advice was to move.
-As far as saving tons, yeah there's a side of me that thinks I'd be an idiot to throw away such a perfect opportunity to build the 'Mustachian dream' here just to move, especially if it turns out moving wasn't as great as I thought it would be.
-As far as friends, I have some here but not many. As I mentioned before there's not many like minded people, or even open minded people here at all. Lack of dating prospects is not the only thing I dislike here.
-I get what you're saying on the masturbating. However I disagree that "anything you can do with a date, you can do with friends except sex". Friends simply do not have the same emotional connection that I'd like in a romantic partner, but it's hard to put into words. And it's not like I've been completely celibate the entire time I've been here either.
-I plan on continuing travel. I went to Amsterdam last month and had an amazing time. I plan on backpacking all through Europe next year.
-Could definitely pick up more hobbies. Right now I'm mainly into road biking and disc golf for leisure, and I also spend a good deal of time on Mustachian activities that save money such as cutting my own hair, making my own cleaning products, mowing my lawn with a reel mower, doing my own bicycle maintenance, etc. I think I can hold my own at cooking. I lift weights once a week but could probably pick up on that. I'm not that interesting but much moreso than the majority of people here I think.
-I don't think I can get much from them in terms of education, but I've been to a few conferences in nearby cities.
-I worry I may have grass is greener thinking, I'm just super lonely here.