Layering and sealing would depend on the base. If you're going to dig down 2+ feet and build a good base, both would be fine.
If your only digging down a foot, then you don't need to layer, and sealing first thing would probably be a mistake. The ground will continue to settle and compact as you drive on it. Plan for a followup touch-up gravel delivery after a while, then seal.
Much depends on the ground/area you're in.
What about using those plastic grid pieces, which I presume helps keep the gravel in place? I've seen a lot of that used here in the southeast in projects to make driveways more permeable.
yea thats what i was thinking, geocell is what i think they are called, just google the term.
back in college summers i worked in hardscapes, building paver patios and retaining walls, any driveway had 4-6 inches of road base then sand then pavers, we never used geotextiles
for this i think 6 inches of road base is plenty, then the geocells then the 2 inch depth of ~1" gravel. Poor Rod is right about compaction. geotextiles are probably overkill, but if you want one get woven as non-woven is only for material separation, woven will provide some "strength"
make sure you have appropriate drainage or slope to the driveway to prevent ponding of water