I’d love to hear what strategies you all have for protecting your finances from your own possible cognitive decline.
Sometimes family can help, but not always, and we don’t all have family. I know that there are lifestyle things we can do to stay sharp longer, but that’s not guaranteed, and with long COVID, Alzheimer’s, dementia, and just bad luck, we’re all at risk.
Yesterday I was catching up with an older retired friend whom I hadn’t spoken with in a couple of months. Since 2020, her cognitive function has declined. She’s been getting confused and having short term memory loss. She lives alone, her nearest family is a couple of states away, and while she does have friends, the pandemic isolation has been really hard on her. Some time ago I contacted her sister to let her know things weren’t going well.
I found out my friend has been a victim of a financial fraud scheme. The details she told me weren’t clear because of her memory problems, but I could piece together that her sister and some good trusted friends know and are helping her, the police fraud division is investigating (for what that’s worth) and she does have a lawyer. It sounds like she’s able to pay her basic bills, but she lost a lot of money – anywhere from $10K to 1.5 million – her story wasn’t clear. It started when she called what she thought was a Microsoft helpdesk for help with her computer. They got control of her computer, and got into her bank accounts and credit cards because she had the information stored there. They also sucked her into a Steam card scam in which they were bringing boxes of cards to her house and having her write the numbers down and get the scratch-off codes for them, so that she could “get her money back”. Once she figured out that they were taking her money, she didn’t tell anyone for a while because she was embarrassed. She is an intelligent person who used to work with lawyers in a regulatory department for an oil and gas company, and now that she’s in decline and alone, she is an easy victim.