I long fantasized about living in a more rural area. Fortunately, I was able to find a summer job (I'm a professor) where I have that...for a month. I love it, but the experience has made me realize that I probably would not like it year round. Where I am in the summer there is one small food store in town, more than an hour's drive to music, theater, good library, and at least 45 minutes even to car repair. When I was offered a full time job I turned it down, largely because parents in the town told me what a struggle it was to have a teen there. I realized my teenager would have little to do just at the point where she is getting engaged in science and wanting to do internships...not to mention what passed for entertainment for teens: video games (even movie theater was an hour away), drugs, and sex. Now, this was a town of 2,000---if you are considering a town of 20,000+ or an area that is really a distant suburb to a major city it would be quite different. Just be sure you are being realistic about what the life would really be like. Also be realistic about working at home with young children. As far as your career track, yes, you will lose ground by taking the lesser job. That's the reality. I am a middle aged professional who did not leave the work force and I have friends now calling trying to get back into full time jobs. But they are not as valuable as someone who has substantially more work experience and, in my field, a known reputation...and they are competing with highly educated, energetic younger professionals. That said, the ones who enjoyed being home with kids have no regrets. The ones who did it because their husbands wanted them to are not so happy about it. Think hard about what you want and go for it. You have fabulous options and many choices.