I'm planning far out in the future, but that is what we do here, right? And I know a million things may change, but, if things stay the same for SS, and the federal gov't decides to recognize my marriage as valid (which I would bet on eventually happening) what would be the most advantageous way to take SS?
Plans and expectations: I am 13 years younger than my wife. We will stay married until someone dies. My wife makes more $ than I do, and probably always will. We will both retire in 2024 when she is 62 and I am 50. We both may work very part-time after that. We wil be able to retire without getting her SS. We both have a decent shot at living longer than average lives, based on family history.
Does it make the most sense for her to start collecting when she turns 70? And me to collect from mine at 62? Then if she passes away before I do I would start collecting her check (that is the way it works, right?)
I know this is rather silly to plan now, but it helps me relax around a planned 4% SWR. Especially b/c if the market underperforms in the first 8 years that will be the time it would be easiest for me to get a part-time job, live more cheaply in Thailand or in an RV here, etc.