Thank you all for the ideas. We have a rental for the moment, but at $50/day it seems like a rip-off, even with insurance paying $20 of it. We hit the deer on our way to a big family event across the state so had to take what we could get for the weekend.
We want to try out the Focus and Prius. We're open to others if the price, mileage, and condition is right. We have three scenarios in mind:
1. Go cheap with a Focus. We really need to do a test drive, but they seem inexpensive compared to 2 & 3 below. Reliability looks pretty good and mileage is acceptable.
2. Get a similar Vibe / Matrix. I hope this would be close to cost-neutral, but that depends on the insurance company.
3. Spend a little more for a Prius and make it back in improved gas mileage. Also really need a test drive.
If we can reduce our miles driven, option 1 is more attractive, but if we continue our high mileage ways, 3 looks better. I part-jokingly told my folks we're going on strike - no more visits there until after they drive the 2.5 hrs. to visit us a few times. We've realized that our frequent weekend travel to visit family in eastern WI or in the Twin Cities is one of our biggest expenses and makes life feel hectic.
This could also be an opportunity to up our badassity in the bicycle department. I have to repair my main bike ('85 Trek 400) - before it broke I was doing a bicycle train to drop off the kids at day care with a Burley trailer hooked up to the 1-wheeled tag-along hooked up to my bike. Since I've been on my backup bike (late 70's Raleigh Sprite 27) I'm down to hauling the Burley with just one kid. My wife's job makes it tougher for her to ride, but being carless for a little while may help us improve.
StarryC, thanks for the tips on working with the insurance company. We've been doing some of that research for a replacement and will start thinking of it as background info for negotiating. We can travel some for the right vehicle and have family in the Twin Cities, but having no way transport the kids makes that tough.
We visited a used car lot today to peek through the windows of a few models we're interested in. A spreadsheet is in the works to compare options 1-3.