Here's the situation, married with tree little ones all under the age of 5. My work day is mostly the standard business hours with some flexibility, so some days I stop work at 3pm so I can play with the kids or do errands. The kids are in bed by 7-8pm which leaves me a good 3-4 hours at night of uninterrupted time. I clean up, I cook, ect but that only takes half an hour or so, we live in a very tiny apartment.
What I do now is either work, surf the web, watch movies, or read a book. What I would really like to do is some thing physical or social, because i'm stuck on a computer screen all day and don't really want to be on the computer again at night. My wife will be up sometimes with me to chat, but mostly nurses my youngest. So I'm bored and lonely. I'm in the city so there are definitely some options but most of them entail spending money. I could go to the gym, martial arts, or some kind of sport, but then there are membership fees. I could hang out with friends but that would either be going out to eat or drink. Join some kind of club, what I have no idea, but it would probably come with some dues.
I'm really in a rut and never really been the type of person to get bored. Before kids it was sports, games, movies, or school.
Other than get a night job, any other recommendations?