Hi everyone, I'd like to get some advice and perspective from people who are probably better balanced than I am. I'm currently training in a prestigious medical residency. Since joining I had been working towards one of a few coveted spots at a prestigious cancer center, that prior residents had gone to. I ended up not getting it, and instead am going to a different center I was somewhat ambivalent about. My prospects at getting a good university job is diminished now. On the one hand it opens up the opportunity to pursue a career that isn't all driven by prestige/academic advancement/blah. On the other hand, I worry about what type of job I can land and feel I let down my mentors, who had assumed I would get the top position. My question is: how do you all deal with disappointment in your career plans? Any advice is appreciated.