If I had to do it over again, I would not have used a DR ELP. American funds for investing (5.75% load, .5% ERs), only sold me term life insurance begrudgingly. Could have done much better without him, and in fact have done much better since we got away.
Suggest reading the stock series
http://jlcollinsnh.com/stock-series/ - long read, but in the end the recommended portfolio is Total Stock + Total Bonds. I personally add Total International. Simple is good - the less complicated your plan is the more you're likely to stick to it. Most long-term investing "failures" happen not because the market fails to provide adequate returns, but because the investor has behaved poorly, usually trying to time the market. If you just pick a reasonable allocation for yourself, invest regularly and rebalance annually, you'll do fine.
You didn't disclose income, but your asset list looks OK. If you accumulated this on $50K/yr of income, it is more impressive than if it was $250K/yr, but nothing obviously "wrong" in the account list. You do have a lot of cash - about $45K. With a paid-off house, maybe you can move some of that into investments?