I ended up talking to my friend about this same topic. She actually had gone to a thrift store and found some great finds. She is very stylish and almost all her clothes are 2nd hand. Other than thrift, we agreed that the most important R is reduce, and the least is recycle bc it is really hard to know what really happens post use. She told me that Africa has accepted so much clothing from the US, it's becoming an environmental disaster. I'll try to be better going forward. I don't return as many items as probably some do, as I have 2 daughters and we are all slightly different sizes. So often if it doesn't work for me, they can use. I also have learned, I don't need to wash things as often, (esp jeans) as I was taught. And when I use the dryer I dry for 40 minutes then hang dry. That helps with longevity. Also I have gotten in the practice when I'm doing dirty messy house chores (painting, mudding) I'll wear a big apron which helps keep my clothes clean.