My wife and I generally go back and forth a bit. Sometimes we're really excited about finding a new way to save money, sometimes we get discouraged by the fact that we don't spend on as many "wants" as we'd necessarily like to. I actually like my job so I've decided to stick around until my kids are out of college so I can pay for it, so not having a goal to RE super early (it will be my late 50s) also takes some of the fun out of it.
At this point we have a decent nut saved up, and even if I didn't save another penny, compounding should allow us to have a very comfortable retirement when the time comes. I show a ~ 90% success in cfiresim not including my pension or Social Security, and if I include those I'm leaving my kids multiple millions of dollars when I croak. So for now, I just try not to screw things up, set a good example for my kids, and wait for time to pass.