Posting because I'm feeling frustrated, unmotivated, etc and I would love some feedback.
In December I decided that I would aggressively pay down my student loan. At that point I had $37,000 and intended to pay it off by December of this year. I've paid off almost $5000 in the last two months, but I don't think it's sustainable. It's making me kind of miserable to count every penny and say no to everything that has an expense attached to it. I feel like I'm making my kid miserable too. And for what?
Even if I do stick with it, and I pay the loan off entirely by December... so what? I mean, great, now I have no debt, but I also have nothing to show for a year of misery lol. I guess I am questioning whether or not this is a good idea or if I should be doing something different.
My after tax income is $3630/month (minimum; sometimes more with odd jobs etc). I am currently spending $1295/mth ($855 is rent). I am contributing $400/mth to savings, and paying the remainder toward my loan (minimum $1935, sometimes more).
I feel like maybe I could be using the money more wisely - ie instead of putting down so much on my loan (which is 0% interest btw), I could be saving for a downpayment. But I don't really know if I want a house. Or maybe I could buy a vehicle, but again, not sure that I want one. I could travel? but that seems frivolous. I just don't know.
I'm 34, my kid is 11. I feel like it would be nice to have a house/yard instead of an apartment, but I also feel like he'll be 18 in 7 years and move out and then I will just want an apartment for myself, so is it worthwhile to even buy a house for 5-6 years?
I had him young (22), spent the first 10 years of his life trying to 'better myself' - finishing high school (I had dropped out as a young teen), going to college and then university, so I could get a good job and give him a good life. I feel like that hasn't worked out. I do have a decent job with benefits etc, but part of me feels like I'm not giving him what I hoped for.
Not sure what I'm looking for, I just feel lost right now.