I've only been involved for about a week but based on what you said, maybe the main value for you would be travel recommendations? Or, with your NW, maybe estate planning or philanthropy strategies. The guy that did my interview and NW verification was a regular like you and me, so it's not all start up richie riches.
Also, it is just eye opening to see the kinds of things available out there. I recently learned that concierge medical services are not as pricey as I thought and exosome therapy is a thing. (On that last one I was like "woah, rich people are buying back their youth! But really, people already do in the form of personal trainers and other wellness spending.)
I think the bottom line is that a lot of these people are generally smart individuals to have done so exceptionally well. As with most of life, I like exposure to diverse mindsets, and this is a new one I haven't tapped into before. I'll treat it like a salad bar and just take what I like from it, and try not to get too spendy in the process, but also get a little spendy.
My penny pinching ways sometime seem more like a liability than an asset to life these days. I am trying to loosen the purse strings a bit and see what value I get. I upgraded our room on a recent ski vacation and it was so worth the extra money for my family. I paid more for parking at the airport for a lot that I thought might be more convenient and regretted it. I am hoping by trial and error I can strike the right balance. In this forum, spending more is frequently met with "but why?" and the need to rationalize it. Yes, we can always say it's just what you value, but the need to rationalize can stem from a scarcity mindset, which I am trying to move away from.
I'm not trying to convince anyone to join, just laying out my initial impressions and why I am there.