Nederstash - Brutal. Sending you good vibes.
Of note, I thought I had dodged the lawyer burn out bullet early in my career. I got a job fresh out of law school that (1) I was terrible at and (2) had terrible people. In response, I started having coffee with other lawyers just to ask what they did and did not like about their jobs. I was shocked to find that maybe 90% of those lawyers told me WITHIN THE FIRST 10M of the conversation that they hated being a lawyer! I made the switch to my current area and loved it for a long time ... but you're so right, at a certain point the beatings just get you down, don't they?
For a long time I thought I was the lawyer that was the rare success story in terms of job satisfaction. Now I'm curious ... who are the happy lawyers out there?
I'm a solo and absolutely love, love, love my job 95% of the time. I make my own schedule, decline cases I don't want to handle, fire clients that piss me off, have complete autonomy over everything I do, etc. I could make anywhere from $50,000 to $200,000 next year, depending how hard I want to work.
Tomorrow nothing is on the schedule, so I'm going golfing at 8:00, meeting another lawyer for lunch, and then reading transcripts in the afternoon. Yes, some days are brutal (I had a 70 hour week a couple weeks ago), but no job is completely perfect, and billing that at $200/hour makes it worth it.
I also think being a lawyer, and just a lawyer, full time is boring. I love coming in and updating my mileage log, updating Quickbooks, going to get office supplies, updating my website, etc. Put most broadly, I like running a business because it's a nice break from practicing every working hour.
The only con, I think, is that you can still get a feeling that you're playing whack-a-mole. Kill one project and another pops up. But when you're a solo, that generally means more money, so it's easier to swallow.
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Going back to your comment about trial practice, I get what you're saying. I'm guessing you're in some sort of government position if you're trying that many cases. And yes, I know what you mean -- other lawyers are brutal with the rules regarding opening, closing, attempting to introduce things into evidence that absolutely will not get in, prejudicial remarks to the jury, bullshit cross, etc. And then, on appeal, the appellate court ties itself into a pretzel trying to find any way not to reverse the decision.
I have only been part of three jury trials, so take my advice with a grain of salt, but what's worked for me is to (1) file an absolute shitload of motions in limine/motions to suppress, (2) call other lawyers that have tried cases against your opposing counsel, and (3) make the judge aware of possible shenanigans at your pre-trial. And when those shenanigans occur, be absolutely indignant about it at trial. Request a sidebar right then and there. The jury will know who's in the right.
You may also want to look into your state's rule regarding judicial notice. One of the better tips I got a long time ago was that judicial notice (Federal Rule of Evidence 201). You can file motions for the court to take judicial notice of certain facts. Almost like a summary judgment. I used this is a non-compete case to have the trial court take notice that my client's non-compete was valid, the court granted that motion a week before trial (i.e., completely removing defense's argument that it was invalid), and we settled that case days later.
Just a thought.