I've been carrying these puppies around for about 30 years, and much like Malkynn, lace and looking pretty isn't on my radar anymore at all. I want utilitarian garbage that works so the girls don't bounce and give me a black eye, not bits of pretty fabric to peacock around in. I just opt for dark colors so stains don't show (this rule applies to all clothing). I need something that wears like iron. My life is such that sometimes I can't/don't take off a bra for several days simply because I am out in the field/backcountry and none of my clothing gets changed other than socks ;) I have a specific bra set aside for this type of wear in an attempt to extend the lives of the rest.
In fact, I think that is my biggest pet peeve when looking up bra reviews online. Everything focus on "style, fashion, color." I wear clothing over my bras, I could give a shit less what they look like. I need to know how they feel, how well they hold the boobs in place, and how long they last. I don't need to know whether they can "go from the gym to a hot date."
I'll never enjoy them, they serve no purpose at this size beyond attracting a mate, which I've already done. They even made feeding my child without suffocating him difficult back in the day. I've thought about a reduction, which would likely save me money in the longrun, but I don't have the back problems necessary for my insurance to consider it medically necessary. C'est la vie. Lesson learned, regardless of reviews, skip the silly "support pads." They were comfortable and kept everything in place while they lasted!