This is the best drinking water thread on the MMM forums that I have seen!
So many reasonable and knowledgeable responses.
I appreciate
@yachi 's comments the most. Safe Drinking water is an equity issue. I also resonate with myrrh's comment about the relative danger of long term exposure to lead and potential sources of contamination. I would definitely advocate for removing all lead pipe, leaded brass fixtures, and easy to access lead soldered copper pipe and galvanized steel pipe in your house plumbing before purchasing a short lived, wasteful, point-of-use RO system. I would also say that mistymoney has a good point too, don't blindly trust the safety of your drinking water, the US has good regulation of public drinking water, but not all of it is perfect all the time and water system's are subject to the same forces of inequity as all other US institutions.
Removing lead materials from the drinking water distribution network is the only way to achieve the maximum contaminant level goal of 0 ppb. The US does not currently have a regulation in place to achieve this goal. Part of the infrastructure funding legislation that is in limbo makes a lane for a lot of money to remove leaded pipes from public drinking water systems. This money isn't available yet, but it will most likely be used to replace buried leaded pipes and not premise plumbing. Activism is needed to move this money from the under the streets into the homes (though removing buried leaded pipes will be helpful and the money will motivate many water system's to stop pretending they don't have buried leaded pipe).
If you are concerned about lead leaching from your pipes into your drinking water, replace your leaded pipes and fixtures. I have not had my home water tested for lead, I know my municipal water is not especially corrosive and I have replaced all of my fixtures. Visual inspection of pipe in the basement confirms no lead pipes, though my brass fittings and lead solder will have a lead content.
Though I am not concerned about lead for myself, I always run the water for 20 seconds before giving it to my kids from the tap, I think this gets water from the pipes in the street to my bathroom tap. No one in the house is allowed to drink from the hot water tap. I have my children's blood lead levels checked, but I am not concerned about my own development at this stage.