YOU SAID: "Do you have a legal will?
IIRC from our latest round of will-drafting, you cannot give away something in death that legally belongs to your spouse. Since you live in a communal property state your spouse shares ownership of your assets unless specified otherwise (e.g. via a prenuptial agreement). Ergo, you cannot just give that away in death without your spouse's consent. The listed beneficiaries (charities) have no rights to these assets - your spouse does."
Is this the case even though I brought these assets into the marriage and they are all in my name?