There is something that has been bothering me for a long time and I would like to hear some Mustachian views on this.
We live in Europe. One thing that all of the countries that I have ever lived in have in common are good public healthcare systems that insure more or less everybody. All of these systems, even the ones in the poorest of EU countries, are well known to be more than willing to cover costs of treatment when you have a condition that cannot be effectively treated in country X, but it is well known and medically accepted that it can be treated in country Y. This especially applies to children and our public health systems have been known to pay outrageous amounts of money for treatment in the US when children present with super rare life threatening conditions that have only ever been successfully treated in the US. I have never, ever heard of a case where such coverage was denied and usually, if there is money to be collected, it is to help parents and carers with living expenses while the patient is receiving treatment.
However, lately I am almost constantly bombarded with gofundme campaigns asking me to donate money to help some child with a rare illness get some kind of expensive treatment that is the "only thing that works" but the national insurance refused to cover it. The problem : every single time I go and do more research into it, it becomes obvious that the therapy that is being collected for is some alternative, holistic mumbojumbo with no proof that it actually does anything, which is why the parents cannot get the insuring institutions to even consider it.
I honestly find it sickening that all these witch doctors would go after parents with seriously ill children and I hope that there is a special circle of hell out there for these people. But I am finding it hard to respond to such calls when they come from someone I am acquainted with. I feel it is cruel to openly say that I will, on principle, not donate money for some hocus pocus, as I feel empathy for these parents and understand that they just want to feel they're doing everything they can. But if there is one thing I don't want to give money to, it's the people who have the nerve to charge 30-40 000$ to desperate parents for some crap they made up.
So what do you think, what is the correct way to act in these cases? How to show empathy without funding quacks?