My H is an engineer, looking for a job casually as he is currently employed but would like a change. He is in R&D and everything is on his computer, not lab work.
He's now had two interviews where he asked questions about schedule and work life balance, and the interviewers made half joking comments like "we work 80 hours a week. Not really", or "if you have extra time to work on side projects I'll give you more work!", or comments about staying until9 pm on a Friday.
Obviously H would rather find out ahead of time if that's how they roll. But it strikes me as odd. Maybe it is a gender thing (I'm also a R&D engineer and I've never experienced it).
Also if anyone in the twin cities works for an innovation company headquartered here, and wants to PM me, I'd love the inside scoop.