Situation: My parents are 66 (mom) and 69 (dad). Dad has been retired since he turned 62, mom is still working. They are both intelligent people, but totally mystified by anything to do with money. They are pretty frugal, live in a paid off home and have modest desires. Their health is not great. As much as I would like to have them around for many decades, realistically, I expect they'll both be gone in 20 years.
Issue: Mom is trying to prep for retirement. In an attempt to be responsible, she and dad went to see a financial advisor. They did choose an independent advisor, but their conversation threw up a bunch of red flags. This guy was talking about setting up trusts, giving them advice on medical insurance without asking about their current situation, and in general sounds like he wants to sell them a bunch of high priced products they don't need. I'm glad mom chose to tell me about this and I'm trying to steer them in a better direction.
Current finances: We are not a family that really talks about money. I don't know how much my parents have saved, but I do know they each have one 401K account and nothing else. My dad's account is invested in... something. My mom's is invested in the money market option and she is NOT open to investing in stocks at all. I might be able to broach the subject of bonds. Maybe. The main takeaway is their finances are simple and they are of modest means.
What they want: Mom and dad need A Person Who Isn't Me to speak with about their retirement finances. They are overwhelmed by the idea of doing things like a rollover IRA. In speaking with mom yesterday, she didn't even understand why this might be a good thing. Dad's 401K is still in his company's plan. The are Afraid of Taxes, even though I suspect they pay very little in taxes. They don't know anything about RMDs or how to sell off assets and take distributions. They need A Person.
Obviously I want to send my parents to a trustworthy resource and would like to avoid a big management fee if possible. I personally would love to see them get a Vanguard Personal Advisor, but it's possible they would feel more comfortable with a storefront they can go to. Fidelity comes to mind for that and there is a Fidelity branch within a reasonable drive of their rural house. Are there other companies I'm missing?
My other admittedly selfish motive is to keep their finances as simple as possible. I'm executor of their will. Getting things set up properly now will save me a lot of pain sometime in the future.
What does the forum suggest?