All I want to comment is exploring different medical options is great. However, you are just never going to control the costs which is part of the reason this was posted in the 1st place. Getting surgery, there's hospital costs, bed costs, medication costs, anesthesia, etc. Those are the major costs compared to just what the OB/GYN charges. If you don't even have a doctor yet, then you have to go to consultations. And if you are picky, you are going to have to goto multiple consultations to find one you like that will work with your situation.
If you have a high deductible insurance, then do all your research now, and start in January. Expect to hit your deductible and total out of pocket limit for the year.
Good luck